"You are tenacious. I love a woman who won't give up." William Luse 6/1/04
"Kudos also to Elena, who proved that she can take it as well as she can dish it." TSO 6/4/04
"the wonderful Elena" Nathan Nelson 8/1/04
"Elena, I quake at the sound of your name" John B-Catholic Packer Fan 8-12-04
"I like your writing and your spunk." Todd Flowerday, Catholic Sensibility 11-8-04
"Elena is is so many shades of stupid they don't make a Crayola box big enough to begin coloring her" Anonymous TWA blog 2/05
"Well, Elena cuts to the chase. Says it like it is and doesn't mince her words." Alexa of Domestic Excellence
"Elena, a woman I have little in common with but have come to be fond of" Cecily Kellog 9/15/05
"I work nonstop to help people with stupidly limited perspectives, like you, accept this reality. Even when it’s hopeless, like in your case. You live in a fantasy. I can’t help you" Also Cecily Kellog 07/2020
"Your witness is horrendous" JCecil of Liberal Catholic News
"Truth, love, charity, and, oh yeah, sensitivity, decorum, good taste and a dollop of wit. That's more like it. Keep rockin'!" PMC 12/05
"I've also been reading this blog for some time and just noticed I hadn't added you to my favorite blogs. Done!" The Mighty Barrister 5/21/04
"Now go haul your huge, sagging, obese, smelly old body out of the chair and take care of those kids of yours before I call CPS and have them do an inspection and see what you're really up to when you're supposed to be homeschooling them." NMH 2006
"That you are one narcissistic, bizaare individual." Jill Filipovic on Feministe Blog September 2006
"I could certainly continue to go back and forth (and believe me, I would love to!!!!!), but that would be answering a fool according to his folly." Amy-anti-Catholic blogger at Blessed Motherhood 7/07/07!
"Where's Elena? We need Elena." Kathryn the Daring Young Mom 2/17/06
"I have no problem with Elena. I find her answers to be quite lucid, witty, and insightful." David B commenting on In Today's News 10/29/05
"She's not cranky, she just senses happiness and snuffs it out." Gabe, age 9, after being scolded for not being ready for swim practice. 12/0
"you are one narcissistic, bizaare, individual." Jill Filipovic 9/11/2006
"Elena of My Domestic Church get’s my nomination for living a life of loveliness that I could only ever dream of. She’s an awesome wife and mother, a deeply committed Catholic, a proponent of pro-life issues, a hands on make-and-bake-and-cut-and-stick-musical-momma, a prayerful, compassionate, thoughtful and passionate woman who endeavours to live a christocentric life in her own euphonious way. Yes, I am proud to know her as a blog buddy and sharing in her trials and her triumphs via reading her blog over the last few years has impacted me more than she could know… and always for the better." Deb from Ukok's Place 08/2007
"I have a feeling elena never moves on from anything. other than the couch to the fridge." 08/2007 commenter on the now defunct Rock Star Mommy Blog.
"I think you're a shrew." Anne Basso 7/08
"Even with our differences, I will say one thing--she's smart. I may not always agree with what she says, but she doesn't spout unsupported garbage as fact." Ruthjoec aka JAnn from AOL Catholic message boards and This That and the Other Thing Blog
"I was wrong. You were right. God bless you" T from LO2W blog 3/6/2008
"As a Catholic Mother myself, I enjoy reading My Domestic Church. It's one of the many blogs that I follow and read regularly. It's refreshing to read comments from a mother that shares your views. So much of what Elena has me nodding my head in agreement. I'm sure that any Catholic-Mother will enjoy reading Elena's blog." SAMinIL on Blog Catalog 9/09
"Because of my interest in Benedictine spirituality and monasticism, began reading about the Domestic Church. This site is an excellent resource. Like any good family it is alive with energy and the Holy Spirit." John on Blog Catalog 12/08
"I watched your talk on YouTube and thought you and your husband did a wonderful job. Very natural, not stilted. Your account of your child, Raphael's, life and death were extremely touching and profound." Eileen via e-mail 02/21/2010
"Happy Easter to you Elena! Four years ago I discovered Candy. Two years ago I discovered you. Last night (Easter Vigil) I was received into full communion with the Catholic Church. It was a beautiful night and one I will remember forever. Thanks to you and Kelly for clearing up any confusion there may be about what the Church believes, teaches, and proclaims. Have a blessed Easter season!" From a VTC reader. 05/2010
"Elena, You completely 'foul up' the catechism. I repeat you are a nice lady, but your lack of education and knowledge, as your distorted answers show," Jack from Liberal Catholic Sports Music 1/9/2009
"you repeatedly impress me. I know we have very different political views that show up in our comments to each other at times, but I have never once felt anything but generosity from you toward who I am." JB via e-mail 7/23/2010
"The post I really love, though is 28 Things I Learned About Marriage in 28 Years at My Domestic Church. In fact, it's so good I plan to show it on the first day of class for my Family and Society course this." Sister Edith at Monastic Musings
Elena was animated, enthusiastic, faith shined through! She was very real. For us, she was relatable and so honest and open. She motivated us the most and we are thankful that she shared so much of her personal life to show example. some PreCana evals from 2014
"you never cease to amaze me, and everyone else! You are unbelievably unforgettably wow! I'm so blessed to be your cousin and friend. Dan - My domestic cousin 5/2014
"Elena: A flute could never sound or feel so etherial as when you play." Marissa
"Your comments are continually provoking, idiotic and condescending" my nephew 11/2018
" As a mom of littles, I really appreciate moms like you tackling these tough issues and sharing your wisdom!" Laura commenting on Catholicmom 06/2019
"Thanks so much for a thoughtful article faithful to the teachings of our faith, while being compassionate towards gay people."Tim commenting on Catholicmom dot com 06/2019
"Grandma, snuggle me!" - My domestic granddaughter 2017
"When Elena turns the other cheek, it's so she can whip around the other side with full force!" Mr. Pete My Domestic Husband!
As I posted on the original blog, the idea that disease is a result of sin is abhorent.
What sin did I committ that I have an eating disorder?
http://managingthebasics.wordpress.com
I had to stop reading his blog; he has some really good things to say, but sometimes his errors just make me angry.
First:
Given that a bishop has the duty to teach to the Church universal, with a particular stress on safeguarding the reception of sacraments within his own diocese
Not true. A bishop has the duty to teach within his particular church, not the universal church – that is the responsibility of the pope. A bishop is to have a particular concern for the universal church, but that’s a very different thing. Lumen Gentium addresses this very issue.
To claim that God would give Ted Kennedy a brain tumor right after receiving the Eucharist… just left me shaking my head. Does that mean that everyone who commits a sacrilege will be struck down by something equally dramatic as soon as they sin? That is NOT a Catholic understanding of God.
I agree with Anna and Amy. How far do you take that kind of reasoning?
If a small child is diagnosed with leukemia, is that God punishing the child for something? Or maybe punishing the parents?
If someone gets sick do we just assume they had it coming and not treat them as not to interfere with the will of God?
What about countries stricken with AIDs? Sin on a massive scale? They are just not God’s chosen people.
It seems like a really horrible way of looking at the world.
I think its absolutely ghoulish to say that illness is caused by sin. How would you react if someone said the tragic loss of your son was the result of your sins? This post is in really poor taste.
Thanks for the comments.
Lindsay, this is my blog and one of the reasons I keep it is to make note of things that interest me or catch my attention. This certainly caught my attention!
I’m not sure that I agree with Steve’s assessment 100%.
I do think that sometimes hardships have a way of bringing us closer to God. I know my stillbirth experience was surprisingly tender in that in my sorrow and grief I grew stronger in my faith and closer to God.
So maybe, illness, hardship, etc. is a result of sin because it is God’s attempt to bring us closer to Himself? A chance to repent and improve? I’d like to think so. I think God is all about second, third, fourth etc. chances.
Sometimes suffering is not a punishment. Sometimes it is a cure.
The whole idea that God uses disease as a punishment for sin, or even as a “wake up call” to cause sinners to repent is so repugnant to me that I had to write my own responce to it:
http://managingthebasics.wordpress.com
No wonder there are atheists.
I haven’t blogged about this much Anna, but back in high school, I too had an eating disorder. At 5 feet 5 I got down to 98 pounds, was growing dark hair all over my body, stopped menstruating – the real deal.
Did I “do” anything to deserve that? I can’t say. Was it the result of sin? I don’t know about that either. I do know it started off to be partly about vanity, how did I look, was I pretty, was I skinny enough – and then later about control and happiness. I do know that my anorexia was very self focused on me, me, me. I also know that must sin is also the result of too much self-focus.
I don’t find the idea of God using illness, disease, hard times etc for something good. Because if God isn’t involved in it somehow, that means it’s all for nothing and that really is abhorent to me.