Writing a letter to your confirmation candidate

It seems that one of the biggest events in confirmation preparation in this country is the letters of support to be given to the confirmation candidates during their mandatory retreats.

I have three such letters saved on this blog:

Confirmation letter to my daughterConfirmation letter to my fourth sonConfirmation letter to to my third son
I've asked my children what they remember about the letter they got from me and their dad, and also what they remembered about the letters they received. 
The answer was not much, or at least nothing specific. In general they were happy to have gotten a bag full of letters and there was a sense of feeling loved and supported. I guess that's the main thing - for them to have a sense that this is an important step in their spiritual growth, and that people they know, love and respect have taken the time out of their lives to let them know that! So here are some tips on procuring and writing letters for young confirmation candidates. Start thinkin…

A Truly Valuable Christmas ( or any time!) Gift Idea

When I think back about over the many Christmas gifts I have received through the years, the ones that mean the most to me are the ones that had a personal connection with the gift giver. And what is more timeless and memorable, than a special book with a beautiful inscription?

A few years ago, I came across a book that belonged to my late uncle from when he was a little boy. It was just a simple children’s book, The Story of Ping. I think my uncle must have been around seven or eight years old when he received it from his Aunt Mary.

By the time I found it, there was evidence that this had been a well-loved and well-read book, with torn and worn pages and cover.

With a quick turn of the cover and I saw immediately why this book had stood the test of time and stayed in the family library for so many years – there in the corner was an inscription - To Calvin Leckrone Jr., from Uncle Fred and Aunt Mary, Christmas 1936

Just the little time and effort it took to make a personal inscription in a wonderful book made it a family heirloom, a keepsake, and something to remember some special relatives by.
Calvin Leckrone Jr.
Aunt Mary was my great-aunt, and I remember her as being very smart with a wicked sense of humor.

Dear Aunt Mary – how clever was she to assure that we wouldn’t forget her! And she did it in a very simple yet meaningful way – she bought a great book (hard cover), and then wrote the name of the recipient and her name, with the year and the event. Those simple things and voila!

The first step is to pick out a great book.
Here are some suggestions for older kids:

Melissa Wiley’s book recommendations. 

For the Love of Literature- PDF

The second part is to simply get a good pen in black or blue ink (but I think black lasts longer and looks nicer) and write your inscription on the inside cover. I have found that I have to plan it out a little bit before I write it out. Be sure to include the occasion and the year! This may take away from the “value” of the book on one hand. But that’s not the kind of “value” I am interested in building anyway! The value of this little book that belonged to my uncle as a little boy from my great aunt is rich in family history, sentiment, and love.

Updated 2018