Writing a letter to your confirmation candidate

It seems that one of the biggest events in confirmation preparation in this country is the letters of support to be given to the confirmation candidates during their mandatory retreats.

I have three such letters saved on this blog:

Confirmation letter to my daughterConfirmation letter to my fourth sonConfirmation letter to to my third son
I've asked my children what they remember about the letter they got from me and their dad, and also what they remembered about the letters they received. 
The answer was not much, or at least nothing specific. In general they were happy to have gotten a bag full of letters and there was a sense of feeling loved and supported. I guess that's the main thing - for them to have a sense that this is an important step in their spiritual growth, and that people they know, love and respect have taken the time out of their lives to let them know that! So here are some tips on procuring and writing letters for young confirmation candidates. Start thinkin…

it's the little things

Amongst my mother's belongings, I found this small landscape picture. It's a print on a piece of very cheap cardboard in a plastic frame. It's about 8 x 6 inches or so. Not very big and weighs next to nothing. It's not even great art.
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But on the other side of this picture, probably more than 70 years ago or so, a teacher wrote:

Presented to Mary Rose Leckrone for perfect attendance to Sunday School by her teacher, Mrs. Norman Stong.

from a teacher

And that is where the real value of the piece comes from.  What was it that made Mom keep this little picture all these years?  Perhaps it was with fondness that she remembered her Sunday School Class. Or perhaps she fondly remembered Mrs. Norman Stong.  Or maybe Mom tenderly remembered having perfect attendance with Sunday School.  Whatever it was, it made her save this little momento for the rest of her life and out of respect for that I found a little place to hang it in my home office today.

The one thing I have truly learned this past year of going through my mother's things is that the little cards, notes and little keepsakes are worth so much for the loving memories and feelings they evoke.  They are in fact priceless!

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