Writing a letter to your confirmation candidate

It seems that one of the biggest events in confirmation preparation in this country is the letters of support to be given to the confirmation candidates during their mandatory retreats.

I have three such letters saved on this blog:

Confirmation letter to my daughterConfirmation letter to my fourth sonConfirmation letter to to my third son
I've asked my children what they remember about the letter they got from me and their dad, and also what they remembered about the letters they received. 
The answer was not much, or at least nothing specific. In general they were happy to have gotten a bag full of letters and there was a sense of feeling loved and supported. I guess that's the main thing - for them to have a sense that this is an important step in their spiritual growth, and that people they know, love and respect have taken the time out of their lives to let them know that! So here are some tips on procuring and writing letters for young confirmation candidates. Start thinkin…

Feast of St. Martha

Luke 10:38 Now as they were traveling along, He entered a village; and a woman named Martha R498 welcomed Him into her home. 39 She had a sister called Mary, who was seated at the Lord's feet, listening to His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to Him and said, "Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone? Then tell her to help me." But the Lord answered and said to her, "Martha, R502 Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things; 42 but only one thing is necessary, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her."

This comment in my comment box spurred my interest:

"Surely if Jesus -- who has perfect knowledge -- reprimanded Martha, but not Mary, then I need to learn something from that, and not assume..."

I'm reminded that the scriptures are full of many layers and levels. Imagine that great scholars have poured over these passages for centuries, and yet they still hold meaning and interest for bible students. Many times there are different angles to the same story.

The story of the prodigal son comes to mind. I once heard Josh Harris speak and he reminded us that while the prodigal had the money - he was having a good time!! Very true and it's an angle that doesn't get much play in Sunday School.

I also remember the first time I heard Professor Scott Hahn speak of Abraham and his attempt to sacrifice Isaac. This occurred somewhere in Salem, which later became part of JeruSALEM. Indeed God sacrifices his son in a place where Abraham does not need to sacrifice his. The symbolism and meaning in that revelation is rich!

So I took a fresh look at Martha and Mary. I noted, perhaps for the first time, that Martha is the one who invites Jesus in. She welcomes him. She opens her home and her heart to him. Wow... been there. Many times. Part of having a Domestic Church is trying to make sure that Jesus is welcome there as well as in the hearts of each family member. And maybe that's where Martha didn't follow through. Jesus does become a deep part of Mary's heart, and certainly her mind. I'm sure that's what Martha wanted for her sister. But at the same time, maybe she was jealous that she hadn't allowed Jesus into her own heart and mind as she had intended. She let the daily things take her away instead of moving her closer. I've done that too.

The other part that strikes me is the part where she asks the Lord to "make my sister" do something. How many times I have asked God that my will be done instead of His?" Probably too numerous to count. God's not a puppet master. I'm sure prayers like that just make him shake his head.

Mr. Pete had an intersting thought of his own on Martha and Mary. He thinks Jesus probably let the ladies work it out in sisterly love while he sought out the company of Lazarus! Maybe the Lord lets us heal ourselves that way too.

Saint Martha

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