Thursday, September 30, 2010

My Daily Domestic Clips 10/01/2010 (a.m.)


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Our Feast of the Archangels

Our day yesterday did not go completely as planned but it was full of memories and blessings anyway.

Calvin and Sarah could not come. Calvin's boss keeps changing his work schedule and as we already had plans on Tuesday (Michaelmas Eve) and Thursday, we were pretty committed to have our celebration on Wednesday. So our oldest was not there. My sister couldn't come either and as it is usually hard to get busy families to come over during a school week, we didn't even try. We were happy though to get Izzy's friend T to join us.

A rough night for sleeping made it impossible for me to get everyone up for mass the next morning. Instead we got up and started our preparations. Izzy and Rosie started on the deviled eggs that I had boiled the night before. I defrosted the chicken breasts and started the sauce for the Angel Hair Pasta dish that we so love. Getting those both done I put them into the crock pot to let them cook and simmer all day.


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That done, I sent Sam and Gabe downstairs to listen and read along with Robinson Crusoe on Libra Vox while I worked with Izzy on her reading and math. During that I got a phone call from one of the funeral ladies at church. A little baby had died and she wondered if I would want to go to the funeral tomorrow. I thanked her and told her I would let her know.

Going to the computer and checking out the obituaries I found the little one and decided instead I would go to the funeral home and take the mother a copy of my favorite prayer book, A Mother's Manual.

But there was much to do before then. Sam's coach from College Plus called and we had our first discussion about what Sam was going to need to do to earn College Credit this year. We spoke for over an hour and Sam already has his assignments to complete, and I had books to order.

When that was done I looked for some volunteers to go with me to the funeral home. With none forthcoming, I volunteered sweet Noah. Noah has a sweet heart and a sensitive soul. He was perfect. When we got over to the funeral home the place was packed. I zipped into a parking spot, forgetting that I was driving a huge van and not a compact car. It took me about 5 minutes to maneuver myself out of that spot and find a place quite a distance away, but where I felt I could comfortably get out again.

There were many people from church there, but I had never met this particular family. I stood in line with Noah to meet the family. The parents were understandably heart broken and I thought I would cry just looking at their eyes. But I said a prayer for strength and wisdom to say and do the right thing. I gave the mom the little prayer book in a gift bag and gold her that I had been in a similar situation once and that this little book had helped me. She hung onto it and told me how very special that was to her. She was also hanging on to a beautiful prayer blanket that the church had given to her. She said she was overwhelmed with the support she had received from the church. I hope she can feel comforted and covered with that support in the weeks to come. It's the days after the funeral I think that is always the hardest.

I was good. I didn't cry until I hit the parking lot and then Noah reminded me that I had promised not to. I gave him a hug. It was good to have him with me. And since it was the Feast of the Archangels, we made a special side trip out to the cemetery to visit our little Raphael. I took out my copy of the Mother's Manual and prayed the prayers that I have prayed so often at his little grave site. Visited mom's niche as well.

Then it was a race to get home and get the pasta going. It was done just as Mr. Pete walked through the back door. We prayed and then enjoyed our feast.
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When dinner was all done, I played the Office of Readings for the day through my MP3 player for us to listen to and contemplate. I'm not sure what Izzy's friend T thought, but I think she enjoyed it. It was a perfect way to end the evening.

So it wasn't quite the way I had envisioned the day but I think it went well and created another memory for my family and hopefully a deeper devotion to God and his heavenly helpers.

Our "craft" for this year - edible angles!
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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

My Daily Domestic Clips 09/30/2010 (a.m.)


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My Daily Domestic Clips 09/29/2010 (p.m.)


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Feast of the Archangels!

This is one of my favorite liturgical feasts! You can read why and about some of the ways we celebrate from my post of last year -
My Domestic Church: The Season of Angels

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We are planning a special dinner with little appetizers, our favorite angel hair pasta dish, deviled eggs and pineapple angel food cake!

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Saint Michael the Archangel,
defend us in battle.
Be our protection against the wickedness and snares of the devil.
May God rebuke him, we humbly pray;
and do Thou, O Prince of the Heavenly Host -
by the Divine Power of God -
cast into hell, satan and all the evil spirits,
who roam throughout the world seeking the ruin of souls.

Amen

Prayer to St. Gabriel
O Captain and Leader of the armies of heaven, unworthy as we are, we beseech you without cease to surround us with your intercession and cover us beneath the shelter of the glory of your ethereal wings. We bend our kneee and cry out with perservance: "Deliver us from danger, O Prince of the Powers on high!" Amen.

Prayer to St. Raphael
Glorious Archangel St. Raphael, great prince of the heavenly court, you are illustrious for your gifts of wisdom and grace. You are a guide of those who journey by land or sea or air, consoler of the afflicted, and refuge of sinners.

I beg you, assist me in all my needs and in all the sufferings of this life, as once you helped the young Tobias on his travels. Because you are the "medicine of God" I humbly pray you to heal the many infirmities of my soul and the ills that afflict my body. I especially ask of you the favor (here mention your special intention), and the great grace of purity to prepare me to be the temple of the Holy Spirit. Amen.


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Works for Me Wednesday- Really Good Salsa Recipe!



Rich is a friend of Mr. Pete's and he shared this recipe with us years ago. It is now a family favorite! With tomatoes still out on the vine this is a great way to use them up in place of the canned diced tomatoes.

RICH'S "HAPPNIN'" SALSA
(a work in progress)


4–14 oz. cans of diced tomatoes –– drain the juice (generic brands work
fine)
––––(I use a mini food processor to further chop up the tomatoes)
1/2 to 2/3 medium Red Onion, finely chopped
3/4 tsp. coarse ground black pepper (no more, maybe less)
4 tsp. cumin
4 tsp. chopped garlic (about four big cloves, finely chopped)
1 tsp. cayenne pepper
5 to 8 drops tobasco sauce, depending on desired heat
One batch of fresh cilantro, finely chopped (mostly leaves, fewer stems)
Juice from one fresh lime and one fresh lemon
Four jalapeño peppers, finely chopped (no seeds unless you want the
heat)

Mix above ingredients together in a medium bowl, let chill for about an
hour, and serve with white corn tortilla chips. No fat, no
cholesterol, good taste, lots 'o heat!!!
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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Sarah and Bristol


Love her or hate her (I personally love her!) there is no doubt that Sarah Palin loves her daughter very much. I loved this clip from DWTS from Monday night.

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The feast of St. Wenceslas!

Lest we forget, today is a good day to sing this hymn!

Good King Wenceslas: "

King WenceslasGood King Wenceslas looked out on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even.
Brightly shone the moon that night, though the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gathering winter fuel"



Read more about the good saint here
here, and a great article at Catholic Culture



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Monday, September 27, 2010

Pretty Izzy


Izzy cross country 2010
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Noah running


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My Daily Domestic Clips 09/28/2010 (a.m.)


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St. Vincent dePaul


Today is the feast of St. Vincent DePaul. This saint has a special meaning in the lives of my family. My dear father-in-law was very active in working for the St. Vincent DePaul society throughout my husband's growing up years. He even took my husband and his siblings with him from time to time to collect donations and unload trucks.

As I recently read through the old letters of my grandparents I learned that they too were active with the St. Vincent DePaul Society.

When our baby died, the St. Vincent DePaul society stepped in and bought the casket and vault for us, without being asked, they just did it. So dear St. Vincent and his society will always have a special place in my heart!

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The Feast of St. Vincent de Paul.

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St. Vincent de Paul (1581-1660)


Saint Vincent de Paul, who founded the Daughters of Charity, was born in 1581 in a small, poor village in France to a peasant family. At an early age, he showed a talent for reading and writing. At 15, his father sent him to school, managing to pay for it by selling the family’s oxen. A good ecclesiastical career, his father believed, would enable De Paul to be financial independent and to help support his family. De Paul was ordained as a priest at the age of 19.



In 1605, de Paul found himself in great debt, and traveled to Marseilles to collect an inheritance. On the way home at sea, de Paul was captured by a group of Barbary pirates. In 1605, the pirates auctioned de Paul off as a slave to the highest bidder, and the future saint spent two years in bondage. Ultimately, the story goes, he became the property of an apostate Christian, whose wife aided in the escape of all his slaves.



Back in Paris, De Paul was driven to succeed and craved the company of high society. Deeply ambitious, De Paul came under the guidance of Father de Burulle, an influential priest in Paris. While working in Paris, de Paul met a theologian in the midst of a crisis of faith. Sensitive to his suffering, de Paul offered counseling.



“In every bed of the hospital with the eyes of faith you will see Jesus.”

- St. Vincent de Paul



“If you help the poor and the needy, God will always provide you with the help you need.”

- St. Vincent de Paul



“Your patients need a share of your joy.” – St. Vincent de Paul



For the sake of this friend’s soul and his own peace, de Paul offered God a bargain: He begged for peace for his friend, even if the price would be for de Paul to experience the same spiritual trial. God took him at his word. While the theologian had his faith restored, de Paul entered a bleak period in which he doubted his faith in God and himself. As a means of diverting himself from his spiritual crisis, de Paul began visiting the poor.



For the next four years, de Paul struggled with his faith. The resolution he ultimately embraced would be surrendering his life’s ambition of living out his priesthood in comfortable wealth. He made a pledge to God to serve the poor, relinquishing his quest for power and prestige.



From here, de Paul’s ministry would grow. “Before we can save the souls of the poor,” de Paul said, “we must give them a life worthy of the name.” This meant food, shelter and nursing the sick. In 1617, founded the Ladies of Charity from a group of ladies within his parish. He organized these wealthy women of Paris to collect funds for missionary projects, found hospitals, and gather relief funds for the victims of war and to ransom 1,200 galley slaves from North Africa. It was not unusual during those years to find him elbow-deep in dishwater, washing bandages for the sick, or ladling out soup for the poor.



One of the Ladies of Charity, Louise de Marillac, took 12 peasant girls in 1633 to work among the poor. She called them the Company of the Daughters of Charity of St. Vincent de Paul Servants of the Poor. They were the first uncloistered community of religious women.



The Daughters went on to become involved in hospitals, prisons and the care for abandoned children. By 1780, there were 430 houses of the Daughters of Charity in France, 20 in Poland and one in Spain. Today, the Daughters of Charity currently number 27,223 members in five continents with 81 provinces.



Vincent de Paul, who died in 1660, was declared Patron Saint of all works of charity by Pope Leo XIII and was canonized June 16, 1737.



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Outside my window...

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From last Thursday's Cross Country meet.

I am thinking...
a lot about time and life and how transient it all is. Ten years ago my kids were 11, 7, 5, 2 and 1.  They were so young and I was so busy with them. I'm still so busy with them but in different ways.

I am thankful ...
For all the time I have had and for the time I have left.

From the learning rooms...
Sam has three more lessons in  Rosetta Stone Spanish and will take his Algebra 2 exam this week. Gabe needs to put more time in his math program ALEKS and start Saxon Algebra 1/2 . Noah is plugging along in Saxon 67 and Izzy in 54.  Rosie will learn about Adam and Eve and the fall this week and about the Holy Trinity.  She is also working in her phonics book. Gabe and Noah are reading
Robinson Cruso .  They are also enjoying Rosetta Stone Latin.  




From the kitchen...
Tis time for the Angel Hair Pasta recipe my family has come to love so much! Making it Wednesday for the Feast of the Archangels!

I am wearing...
Long athletic pants and white stretch shirt

I am remembering:
Mama - always

I am creating...
a feast for the Feast of the Archangels.  We are doing some angel crafts as well as having a feast including some cute little angel snacks.  See my angel links on delicious.

I am going...
to continue working out.  I have lost 9 pounds since I took my exercise schedule up a notch!

I am reading...
A Charlotte Mason Companion: Personal Reflections on the Gentle Art of LearningA Charlotte Mason Companion: Personal Reflections on the Gentle Art of Learning


I am hoping...
to have a fruitful positive week.

I am hearing...
the humm of the air conditioner. 

Around the house...
I actually cleaned off my back porch.  It looks great and it is now usable!

Mama pile- still untouched!

A picture I am sharing:  
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Sam and his girlfriend  - homecoming  2010
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Sunday, September 26, 2010

Confessions of a laid back homeschooler

At the beginning of my homeschooling adventure I was determined to do everything perfectly for my darling little son, Calvin ! Every little speck of information necessary for him to be absolutly on task in kindergarten, I was going to see to it that he got. So with my carefully picked kindergarten curriculum and a "professional" check list I was certain that my little boy was going to have a wonderful  and very educational academic experience.

So I eagerly got all of his books out for his very first day and we spent five hours on kindergarten.  If the book said to look at books on birds or flowers, I had at least 50 of them from the library. When the curriculum suggested a discussion about where waste water goes, I planned a field trip to the sewage center! I still remember little 5-year-old Calvin sitting in the chair watching the little video presentation the nice water treatment lady had prepared for my field trip of one!

And then life interferred. My third brand new baby started running a fever and had to be hospitalized, which meant that I couldn't follow days 1, 2 and 3 for that week's curriculum!  I tried to have him come in with me at the hospital to continue his lessons, but he was much more interested in all the tubes and machines and people to pay much attention and I missed the teachable opportunities that were available to us in the hospital.  We fell behind and I felt that by Christmas I had failed.

Of course we caught up by the summertime, but then I noticed that my Calvin was falling behind in reading. He couldn't remember what sounds everything made and he couldn't read the wayTeach Your Child to Read said he should.  So again we were behind and I found that the only way to keep him caught up in other subects was to read to him.

Throw son Sam the Second Son in the mix and I found myself drowning.  Luckily Grandma helped me out for a number of years but I was still feeling as if I was juggling so many balls!  I had to plan all the books and lessons for Sam and Calvin and then start with little Gabe, and then very soon I had Noah and Izzy. When Grandma could no longer help me I was truly overwhelmed  and overloaded.  Is this really what I had signed up for?  I was a task master, the kids were feeling pressured and joyful  learning was a premium.

A very simple thing turned the tide really.  I was pregnant or sick (or maybe both, I can't really remember) and I had just starting spelling lessons with one child when another one happened to wander by.  It occurred to me that instead of getting up later to track this kid down, I should just get him to sit down now and do both children together!  That worked out so well, that I decided that I could do history that way too. Then science, and reading and before long I had everyone around the kitchen table doing all of their subjects together. I finally figured out how the one-room school house teachers did it!

There are a couple of things that I had to give up in order to accomplish this.  No pre-packaged curriculums that are grade dependent. This type of arrangement works much better with unit studies, Charlotte Mason, or Real Learning or Sonlight types of learning.  Everybody is learning the same things but the kids that are more advanced can dig deeper and the littler kids that need to just get the gist of it pick up at least that. This works great for science and history and even literature. 

Now that I have older kids and access to computers I have my sr. high school student working pretty much independently while 9th grader and advanced 7th grader spend most of their lesson time together including science on the computer. I do spend a lot more one-on-one time with my slower 6th grader and my new kindergartner but even they can work at the table some of the time when I am working with their brothers.

Having a schedule has also really helped me to keep on top of things, although I'm always tweaking it .

But this is what I think separates me from a lot of my friends who are doing curriculums like Seton or even state charter schools online like Ohio Virtual Academy - We are not stressed over getting "stuff accomplished." We are savoring our learning time and trying to make learning its own reward.  I tell my kids continuously that this is the time of life when it's okay for them to ponder, and discover and look things up.  That gets a lot harder when they will have jobs and other responsibilities. So they are learning really because things are there for them to learn instead of because some entity said that they must follow a list. I think that's missed a lot in an institutional setting. But even more important to me, they are learning how to learn from real sources like books, references,  and periodicals, movies and the internet and even t.v. and videos. This is how I teach myself new things now and this is what they need to learn to do now. If they finish their homeschooling years knowing how to learn and loving to learn, I will count their experience as successful.

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