Wednesday, September 30, 2009

My Domestic Church Daily Clips 10/01/2009

  • The truth is, that if it were a famous Catholic Priest this was about, the reaction for the liberal left and Hollywood in particular would be much different.

    tags: current, events

    • I cannot shake the suspicion, however, that lurking behind all of these various excuses is the fact that Polanski is a great artist. It is decidedly doubtful that so many in Europe and elsewhere would be outraged if a factory worker, office manager, or Catholic priest, for that matter, were finally caught after so many years evading justice for statutory rape. It is much more likely that they would be outraged at the authorities for taking so long to get around to arresting the perpetrator. The simple truth is that many people - and I freely admit to being one of them - very much wish that Polanski had not done what he did, and are sorely tempted to pretend that, somehow, he didn't. Since we cannot deny the facts, we deny, in some way, his culpability; or, we tell ourselves that, in the end, all things considered, all things being equal, etc., it really wasn't such a big deal. And we do this, I think, for one reason only: We love his movies.



      It requires a great deal of effort in the face of this to remind oneself that perhaps the foremost reason people get things wrong is wishful thinking. By and large, we do not listen to what we don't want to hear. Indeed, it is not easy for lovers of cinema, and especially Polanski's cinema, to be honest with ourselves and admit that the only really important question to ask about the Polanski case is this: Did he do it? There is no question that he did.

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How our big Feast Day Turned out!

Te Feast of the Archangels yesterday, was a big day at our home. We celebrate it yearly because we have both a Gabriel and a Raphael in our family.

So to start the day off, I got the kids up for 8 a.m. mass, which always seems a lot harder to do than just going to mass by myself... but we all made it and we started the day off right with mass, worship and prayer. Then it was off to Holy Cross Cemetery to celebrate with our own little angel, Raphael. We left a beautiful fall bouquet on his grave site and the kids all gathered around to say a Hail Mary and Our Father. Before leaving the cemetery I also spent a few minutes by myself at mom's grave.

Then it was home to get ready for the night's feast. Sam and Izzy worked on the Deviled Eggs while Noah frosted the Devil's food cake. We have those two foods of course because St. Michael was victorious over Satan and cast him into hell.

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(I finally have a statue for each of the Archangels!)

We also make a very delicious angel food cake with pineapple. But our main dish is Angel Chicken - a delicious crock pot chicken cooked in a sauce made of mushroom soup, white wine, cream cheese, butter and Italian Seasoning served over a bed of angel hair pasta!

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Because it was a weeknight we weren't able to have a big gathering of friends over - everyone's schedule is so busy. But Izzy's BFF Tamara stayed, and Calvin's long-time girlfriend Sarah stayed as well and that made it just right! After recounting for the children who St. Michael and St. Gabriel were, Mr. Pete told the whole story of Raphael from the book of Tobit to the kids. This was all new to Sarah, but she seemed to enjoy the story and I think the rest of the kids did too. After a delicious and full meal we all went our separate ways, but I think my son Gabe can say that we recognized and celebrated his feast day, and I think we did it pretty well!

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Tuesday, September 29, 2009

My Dearest Daughter

Saturday, August 30, 1958

My Dearest Dears:

I am getting disturbed and not a little. I have written you about 7 or 8 times and from the sound of your letter, you are not getting them. I have sent out mail that I thought was important and each time wrote a letter to you. This one is going out registered, return receipt, but where have the others gone! I even sent you the title on the Dodge, I suppose that too has gone the way of the other letters. Do you suppose someone is picking up your mail and not giving it to you? I'm about to burst a blood vessel.

I am returning your check. As I told you in one of my letters, we would call it square if you would sign the title on the Dodge over to me. What kind of parents do you think you have that we should make you pay the postage, or any of the incidentals. I thought you knew that we loved you and Pete.

We have been having rather nice weather, but got a real good soaker this morning. We have a field of clover down, but Dad said he didn't care as it wasn't very good any way, and tht field needs feeding. He is getting the head ready for the chopper and they will soon start on the silage (corn). Incidentally clover hay spoils very rapidly, is why I said that Dad didn't care.

Please tell us all about your job. I wonder if you have written more than two letters to us, because two is all we have received from you since we received the picture cards. Poor Pete and you too, cause $244 is nothing to sneeze at these days. I hope in some way you will be able to get at least some of that money.

Our telephone is out right now, we had a terrible electrical storm this morning and your Dad heard the thing pink during one of the lightening flashes, probably knocked it out someplace. Then too maybe there is still a rain-drop on the line somewhere, remember. ha ha

Maryrose, I am so worried about those letters. Calvin wrote too. Did you get a large brown envelop with some letters and things in it? I sent all these things by Air Mail, have you heard of any planes going down? Surely not all the planes carrying my letters would be the ones to go down.

I mailed your Wedding Album on Wednesday of this week, also a box with all your trinkets. I'll send the rhythm books out on Tuesday, Monday being a legal holiday. The books upstairs I'll send out later, as I take it they are not as important as the music books.

I was in to see Dr. Schwartz on Thursday. he asked if I had heard from you, and I told him I had received one letter, and he said, "don't you stop writing to her; you write to her a couple times a week, because there is no sickness like homesickness." I told him I had been writing at least two letters a week, but it sounds as tho you were not getting them. He suggested that perhaps you would get all of them at once. I wonder and hope so.

I am enclosing a letter from East Lansing and the card that came from Ruth.

If this letter gets thru, please inquire about the rest of the letters we sent to you will you?

By the way, when are you moving into the apartment? Can you hurry and let me know, I know you can't for these music books, but let us know when the address changes.

I must close and try to get to the Post Office and get this off. I wonder if mail will move over the holiday.

You are always in my prayers, the both of you. Give Peter a big hug and a smackeroo from all of us, of course accept as best as possible a big hug and a kiss from us'uns to you'ns.

May the Good God keep you always well and happy.

Lovingly,

Mother



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Monday, September 28, 2009

The Feast of St. Wenceslaus

Lest we forget, today is a good day to sing this hymn!

Good King Wenceslaus: "

King Wenceslaus Good King Wenceslaus looked out on the Feast of Stephen,
When the snow lay round about, deep and crisp and even.
Brightly shone the moon that night, though the frost was cruel,
When a poor man came in sight, gathering winter fuel"

Read more about the good saint here
here, and a great article at Catholic culture.





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Outside my window...
Blue skies, coolish with the trees just starting to turn color.

I am thinking...
about how despite my best efforts to stay out of trouble, sometimes trouble just seems to find me! This weekend I have to coordinate a wedding at church; however the powers that be have scheduled Eucharistic adoration for the same weekend. We can't call off the wedding. We can't re-schedule adoration - what to do, what to do!! It is a delicate balance to strike between making sure this bride has her beautiful day and everything she is entitled too, while still making sure no one is bothered during adoration - and did I mention I only get 30 minutes for the rehearsal? St. Nicholas (patron saint of brides and I'm hoping that extends to church wedding coordinators) Pray for us!

I am thankful for...
The opportunity to record with three of our church groups today at church for our Christmas CD. Still I couldn't help but get a bit misty eyed that mom wasn't there to sing with us.

As a side note, I was at church from noon to about 4 p.m. recording. We had about 5 takes on one piece. It was time consuming, but I felt pretty good about it.

From the learning rooms...
Going to look at the PSAT test materials with Sam. Ordered Spanish Rosetta stone for him too. Going to have him look over Latin and Greek root words and prefixes and suffixes as well. The other kids and I are going to finish up our study of Missouri!

From the kitchen...
I have a great menu planned for next week but Tuesday is our Feast of the Archangels and I get to make our special angel haired pasta dish- YUMMMY!!!!

I am wearing...
I bought some work out pants from Target. I will be wearing them all winter. I love this pants!!! and a white T-shirt.

I am creating...
a clean house and preparing for the feast daythat we will be celebrating on Tuesday. Interestingly, this is the first year in a long time that we will be celebrating without any company. I did invite a couple of families but got turned down. They obviously never tasted that angel haired pasta dish!!

I am going...
to continue my new exercise regimen. I dared to step on the scale for the first time since April and wasn't happy with the results. I had gained 3 pounds. Still considering everything that has happend since then I should be grateful it was only 3 pounds!

I am reading...

Anticancer: A New Way of Life
(although personally I don't think there's much you can do about it - still it's worth a look.)

Senior High: A Home-Designed Form+U+La
The most intriguing homeschool book I've read in a long time!

Francis Beckwith's Return to Rome.  I first heard about this book from  Pastor Bartalucci who is pretty negative towards Beckwith's return to Catholicism. 


I am hoping...
to get through a busy week.  Confirmation meeting on Monday, feast day Tuesday, Music Ministry practice Wednesday, Cross Country meet Thursday, wedding rehearsal (in 30 minutes or less!) Friday, wedding Saturday, PSR and mass on Sunday - never a dull moment.

I am hearing... The air conditioner which actually masks the usual buzzing in my ears. It's actually just on fan now.

Around the house...
I am going to tackle the classroom and Mt. Neverrest- the Laundry

A few plans for the rest of the week: Ditto above!

A picture I am sharing:
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What Rosie does to stay busy during  the cross country meets. 




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Sunday, September 27, 2009

My Domestic Church Daily Clips 09/28/2009

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Friday, September 25, 2009

My Domestic Church Daily Clips 09/26/2009


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7-Quick Takes Friday

Join Jen and the other Quicktakers over at the Conversion Diary.

1. Mr. Pete is working very hard. This is his busiest season and it will last until around Christmas. First there are the kids going back to school who need instruments or to have their old instruments fixed. Then there are the perpetual repairs to be made during marching band season. As soon as football season is over though there will be a mad dash to bring in all the marching horns and get the concert horns out as they prepare for the holiday concerts. It is a very busy time.

2. Sam signed up to be a soccer ref again with CYO. He took four hours of training but has only been assigned two games. I noted that some of the other refs were doing three or four games in a row! I'm just wondering what we have to do or who we have to know to get more games? On the other hand, although Sam is interested in doing more, Mr. Pete does not want him to get a regular job because he doesn't want to work around his work schedule. Calvin was working part time at this age. It would be nice if Sam could get at a church playing the piano or organ. From what I hear there is a shortage of church organists.

3. Sunday we have to make a Christmas recording at church. There are three pieces planned. I will also be recording with the children and the bell choir. I guess I should really try to get some good practice in today and Saturday and make sure my embrouchure is up to it!

4. I recently bought a new Pentax DSLR camera. This is my first camera that is not a point and shoot. It's taken me a while to figure it out. The camera kit came with two lenses and because I was shooting cross country I put the largest lens on first - with mixed results. But this week I tried out the smaller lens and I am much happier with the pictures. I'm still trying to figure it out. Here are some of my best from last night.

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5. My biggest challenge this year is keeping Gabe motivated. He is such a difficult student to prod. In many ways he is like his father at this age. Mr. Pete always got OK grades in school. OK, but not great. He was quiet, friendly, not a trouble maker and a bit of a charmer and that apparently got him by in school with a solid C/B average. Gabe tends to be the same way only as his mother, I can see through the charm!

6. We started movie day in our homeschool. This is something that the Bravewriter web site advocates. I have one day a week when I am swamped with work, and the morning is taken up with music lessons. So instead of losing the day I started movie day. Yesterday I had the kids watch Expelled, a film I blogged a lot about last year. For my high schooler and jr. high student it was very thought provoking. I'm not sure my 6th grader got it all but he did understand that there was some discrimination based on a different world view. Izzy and Rosie just played pretty much. I hope to come up with a new list of movies that should see. Movies are part of the cultural literacy now, but it's also important to pick movies that are appropriate for their age range. I plan to include a lot of musicals!

7. I found out it would cost in the thousands of dollars for genetic counseling and testing to find out my risks for getting ovarian cancer. (Our insurance would cover it, but we have a $5000 deductible.) So I've decided the cheapest and probably most prudent way to go would to pretend that I do have the BRCA1 and BRCA2 mutation and just act accordingly with regular checkups, mammograms etc. I will have to run that by my doctor but right now that's the way I'm leaning.

In the meantime, the mind can play terrible tricks. Every little ache or pain now in my abdomen makes me think of cancer.

About eleven years ago, a friend of mine turned 40 and she was petrified of having cancer and of her own mortality in general. I was pregnant at the time. She came over to my house to laugh and cry about it. I had a blood pressure cuff so I took her blood pressure and it was normal. I remember holding her while she cried a little bit from relief, but also in facing her own mortality. At the time I didn't have such thoughts. I was literally full of life. But now at 50 I get it. And after watching my mother die, I REALLY get it.





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Wednesday, September 23, 2009

My Domestic Church Daily Clips 09/24/2009

  • tags: Catholic, feasts, saints, padre, pio

  • tags: Catholic, feast, saints, padrepio

  • tags: no_tag

    • Prayer is the best armor we have, it is the key which opens the heart of God.



      Pray, hope and don't worry. Anxiety doesn't help at all. Our Merciful Lord will listen to your prayer.



      Don't spend your energies on things that generate worry, anxiety and anguish. Only one thing is necessary: Lift up your spirit, and love God.



      Our present life is given only to gain the eternal one and if we don't think about it, we build our affections on what belongs to this world, where our life is transitory. When we have to leave it we are afraid and become agitated. Believe me, to live happily in this pilgrimage; we have to aim at the hope of arriving at our Homeland, where we will stay eternally. Meanwhile we have to believe firmly that God calls us to Himself and follows us along the path towards Him. He will never permit anything to happen to us that is not for our greater good. He knows who we are and He will hold out His paternal hand to us during difficulties, so that nothing prevents us from running to Him swiftly. But to enjoy this grace we must have complete trust in Him.



      Prayer is the oxygen of the soul.
  • tags: Catholic, feast, Padrepio

    • But through it all, Padre Pio persevered. Quietly. Humbly. Prayerfully. After a lifetime of poor health and great pain, he died in 1968. He was proclaimed a saint in 2002. Stories of his miracles and wonders abound. His mysticism. His gift for prophecy. But his greatest work on this earth was profoundly humble.

      It came not only from how he lived, but how he listened.

      Because his most familiar home… was the confessional.

      Padre Pio spent hours hearing confessions each day. People would line up in the early morning and wait all day to tell him their sins, hear his penance, and whisper their acts of contrition. One of them was a priest from Poland, Karol Wojtyla, who heard Padre Pio tell him during confession that he would one day hold the highest office in the church. Fr. Wojtyla thought that meant he’d become a cardinal. He had no idea what Padre Pio really meant.

      And it began in confession – a sacrament that a lot of us, frankly, avoid.
  • Leticia describes the joy of a large family!

    tags: catholic, families, contraception, birth, control.

    • "The smaller Irish-American family has been attributed to many factors, but the one most often cited is a decline in willingness to defer to the Roman Catholic Church after the Second Vatican Council in the 1960s. “The church’s guidance on all kinds of things, including family planning, doesn’t carry the weight it used to carry,” said Terry Golway, a writer who teaches American history at Kean University in New Jersey.
      In New York, the migration of the Irish middle class from the city to the suburbs contributed to the decline of the double-digit family, he said. “Their world was not defined by the parish as it once was, when they lived in the Bronx,” Professor Golway said. “They moved to the suburbs, where it really was a melting pot. Not everybody on your block was Irish anymore.”'
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    • "The smaller Irish-American family has been attributed to many factors, but the one most often cited is a decline in willingness to defer to the Roman Catholic Church after the Second Vatican Council in the 1960s. “The church’s guidance on all kinds of things, including family planning, doesn’t carry the weight it used to carry,” said Terry Golway, a writer who teaches American history at Kean University in New Jersey.
      In New York, the migration of the Irish middle class from the city to the suburbs contributed to the decline of the double-digit family, he said. “Their world was not defined by the parish as it once was, when they lived in the Bronx,” Professor Golway said. “They moved to the suburbs, where it really was a melting pot. Not everybody on your block was Irish anymore.”'
  • tags: Catholic, feast, saint, padrepio

    • One of my favorite stories about him happened during the early 1960s.

      Italy was in crisis. The Red Brigade was sparking violence in Rome, and it was considered dangerous to travel around the country. For protection, people began carrying pictures of Padre Pio.

      During this time, Padre Pio had to leave his village to visit Rome, and one of the other friars asked him, “Aren’t you worried about the Red Brigade?”

      “No,” he said. “I have a picture of Padre Pio.”
  • New changes to Discover card accounts- which is not good news for the consumers (I am paying mine down!). Also good advice on when to use debit and when to use credit.

    tags: finance

    • PS – don’t get sucked into believing that using your debit card (usually on Mastercard or Visa) will keep you out of hot water.  The consumer protections are DIFFERENT for purchases using debit cards versus credit cards (one is treated sorta like cash and the other is a de facto loan).  So, use debit cards for stuff under $250 and anything over that use the real deal to ensure you automatically gain the protections you deserve.

  • Father Damien is finally going to be canonized next month! Esther has the information for all of the EWTN programming for the event!

    tags: Catholic, saints, FatherDamien


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Works for Me Wednesday- Great book on childbirth



When a woman gets pregnant for the first time, there are many books on the topic of childbirth vying for her attention at the bookstore and in the library. A lot of them will teach her how to be a good patient and fall into line with the what the medical community has established as the "norm" for American women.


Your Best Birth: Know All Your Options, Discover the Natural Choices, and Take Back the Birth Experience by Ricki Lake and Abby Epstein is the book I would recommend to all you women including my future daughters-in-law and my own daughters. It is chock full of facts, studies and interesting anecdotes that I found to be compelling and persuasive as well as inspiring.

There were a few parts that I feel especially warrant a mention.


In Ina May's classic Ina May's Guide to Childbirth, she cites a very intereting study that probed into the ways American women think about pain in contrast to the way the rest of the world in the world consider it. In a study, researchers told a group of American women and a group of Dutch women who were about to have their babies in hospitals that pain medication might stall their labor. Two-thirds of the Dutch women gave birth without pain medication while only one-sixth of the Americans did. Two days after their births, when the women wee asked about their ideas of pain in childbirth, it was clear that even though both groups of women had gone through the same experience, the American women expected it to be more painful and expected pain relief. They just wanted to e knocked out and didn't really want to think about the effect that would have on the baby. Our cultural schooling in anticipating pain is a big factor in how we perceive the pain of childbirth.


When was the last time you saw a woman giving birth on television where she wasn't given an epidural or demanding a pain medicine.  Singer Britney Spears even had a Cesarean because her mother had told her how painful childbirth was and she wanted to avoid that pain.


Speaking of that same study, New York obstetrician, Dr Eden Fromberg said the reaction to it demonstrates how cynical the profession has become about letting women make their own choices and doctors use all of their skills.  She calls it the "lost at of obstetrics. " meaning many doctors are no longer delivering twins or breaches or using forceps even if they are the best tool for turning the baby in the birth canal, because of the legal risk, no tthe situation of the baby or the mother.

What doctors hold out as a trade-off from making  all the choices is the false guarantee of absolutee safety  for you and your baby as delivered via miachines.  "We're not giving people options and not trusting that people can make decisions, " Dr. Fromberg said, "What ifyou say to a woman that there is a one in eight chance of some trouble in a vagnal breech delivery?  One woman might focus on the fact that that risk sounds pretty high to her and choose a C-section. Another might say that seven out of eight successes are pretty good odds."  May doctors simply tell women that they are having a C-section, rather than consulting with them first.
"The buesiness of medicine is awfully coercive, " sand Dr. Stuart Fischbein, a Los Angeles obstetrician, "Hospital risk managers and insurance companies are making the decisions that affect the lives of patients who they never have to look i the eye.  We are training doctors to be sheep, not shepherds.  One successful lawsuit can devastate the hospital's bottom line for years, so thereis pressrue to protect the hospital from liability, despite what the hospital's television commercials tell you.  
Long-time readers might remember the blogger who was told at her first prenatal visit that she would probably have to have a Cesarean!  Talk about a set up!!  More recently a young niece of mine also was denied a chance to have a VBAC because her doctor was really pushing for a Cesarean.

The book also containes some example of simple traditional methods of dealing with common obstetrical problems.

A traditional midwife often carries with her a big Mexican shawl called a rebozo that can help if a woman is in back labor (Meaning that the baby faces towards your pubic bone with skull pressing against your spine. Agony!) She places it under the mother's pevlis and uses it to elevate her butt to move the baby out of the pelvis and into a more favorable position in the pelvis.  This can also work to jupstart contractions that are inefficient. 
I get that many American women are perfectly fine with handing over responsibility for their births to the medical establishment.  But for women who are really interested in being a part of the process and not simply a patient, this is a great resource to start with. Young women need to know and be encouraged that their bodies can give birth and they need to know what their childbirth options are.  This book should be on high school/ college reading lists.  A great gift for young brides as well.



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Tuesday, September 22, 2009

My Domestic Church Daily Clips 09/23/2009


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My Dearest Daughter

After my parents were married in 1958, they started the long, long trip by car from Michigan to New Mexico. My mother stayed there until 1960. These are the letters that my grandmother sent to my mother during that time. Other letters in this series are here. When this letter was written my Greatgrandma Mary was staying with my Grandmother.

Monday, August 27, 1958

My Dearest Dears;

Rain huh! We are having really nice weather, cool nights, warm days. Dad bought an elevator to put hay bales and straw bales up into the barn. They just about have the straw business finished.

I am happy that you are happy. But we thought that you had put the best of the tires that were on the station wagon on the front of the bus. They really must have been cheap tires if they wore out like that. Are tires much higher out there?

You received a card from Ruth Dickens. She and her mother were in New Mexico, but not having your address I suppose she missed seeing you. I forgot to get the card to enclose with this.

Today I mailed out two packages by parcel post. One the big one had the blanket you left, the Wedding Album, and a few other things to fill out the box. The other contained a tin can of all of your trinkets. Also an apron, shorts and another apron.

I don't remember how many packages you mailed out that day along with your trunk. Did they get there in good shape? Did you get the suitcase? I don't understand what you mean at the bottom of your letter when you say "why don't you settle down soon and write us." I don't remember exactly how many letters I wrote, but there should have been one waiting for you when you got there. I sent letters that came here and enclosed a letter of my own. Also Calvin wrote. You should have had 6 or 7 at least.
Maybe you aren't getting your mail, but we sure have been sending it.

So far I have sent out: by express 1 suitcase, later 3 boxes by express, 2 packages by parcel post, then today two 1 large and 1 small box by parcel post. As I said, I don't remember how many you sent out that day when you sent the trunk. Your laundry went out the same day as the suitcase.

You never told us whether you are teaching next month or not. Sounds as tho you might be, since you are looking for a place to live in Chama. *

Mom has been sewing little dresses. She bought some material and made one for Joanie and one for Agnes. Then she got some material for Geralyn. Today she is piecing some left overs from your black and gold dress and will make Geralyn a jumper. She sure is wonderful. It is a pleasure to watch her cut the material out, no pattern, no nothing!


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(My great-grandmother and great-grandfather holding my grandmother as a baby)
Lord, but its lonesome around here. Dad doesn't say much, but he sure feels your not being here. I suppose in time we won't feel it so much. I sincerely hope tht Pete doesn't remember the times I couldn't talk to him, it was queer when you think of it. I surely didn't want you not to marry him, but it was so very hard to think of the big hole your going so far would make in the family circle.

In one of the letters I wrote you, I made a proposition regarding the Dodge. I also enclosed the Dodge title and asked you to sign it. Didn't you get that one either? We will have the Dodge painted and the holes welded.

The wedding album is really something. I couldn't see taking any of the pictures out. They were all so good.

I looked over the rest of your gifts, and really if you don't need them, why couldn't the two of you drive up next summer and take them that way. You could take your dishes then too. It is going to take such a lot of work t pack some of those things so that they won't break. You can collect the insurance, but the sentiment isn't the same. i just don't feel up to it to pack any more, at least for a while. What shall I do with those formals of yours? The black dress, the yellow, the black skirt, and the black overblouse? I fixed the zipper in your white winter coat. Should those winter coats be cleaned before we send them? My but there is still a lot of stuff here. Lots of books too. I'll send the books as you need them; will you teach music? second grade? or what?

Well, I must close. I think I covered everything. Oh yes, Calvin went to Vermontville for the weekend. Had a good time. My flowers are really something to see. They just seemed to really grow during August. I even have some sweetpeas in blossom. Mom gets a big kick out of looking every morning to see what else came in bloom. She has all sorts of seeds saved to plant at home next year.

Well, my dears, my daughter and my son, we pray for your continued happiness and good health. We think Maryrose married the best man on earth, and we are hapy that your love is growing.

Daddy circa 1958


God Bless you both and keep His Loving Arm about you always,

Mother








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Monday, September 21, 2009

Because Daddy's love their little girls- no matter what! Steve Monforto and Emily





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Outside my window...
Blue skies, warm fall day but with precipitation in the forecast at least until Wednesday.

I am thinking...
How much I am like my grandma. I just finished reading her letter that I will post tomorrow. She is so sad about her daughter moving away and yet trying to deal with it maturely. This week Calvin told me he wants to live in South Carolina and that hurt a little bit. I guess it's inevitable, although I am trying to impress upon the other five kids the importance of family. She also mentions the sentiment behind wedding presents and I can relate to that! I keep things out of sentiment as well. My mom must have also been sentimental - she did keep all of these letters!



I am thankful for...
My husband who is diligently putting the new front door on my house! The old one had the bottom kicked out which was replaced with a piece of scrap plywood.

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It looked awful and wasn't very energy efficient or pretty. This new one is both!

From the learning rooms...
Week two of homeschooling. All the sports and all of the activities - the whole enchilada. Really going to look at the PSAT test materials with Sam.

From the kitchen...
Pot roast, potatoes and carrots!

I am wearing...
I bought some work out pants from Target. They fit, they're comfortable, they clean up easily and a green sweater.

I am creating...
a fresh start, a clean mind and a pure heart. Which means I'm keeping away from the really hard arguments over at Candyland.

I am going...
to continue my new exercise regimen. I am going to walk every day between 6 and 7 a.m. with Sam. I also want to make it to a couple of daily masses a week. The group of people that attend our church's daily masses are just really, really special and I've made up my mind I want to be part of that group. I have also renewed my commitment to the Music Ministry at church as well as with my homeschool group. I am at a point right now in my life that I really value my relationships and I want to continue to grow and cultivate them.

I am reading...

Anticancer: A New Way of Life
(although personally I don't think there's much you can do about it - still it's worth a look.)

Senior High: A Home-Designed Form+U+La
The most intriguing homeschool book I've read in a long time!

 

Your Best Birth: Know All Your Options, Discover the Natural Choices, and Take Back the Birth Experience
I'm hoping to blog on this later this week. I mean it this time!

I am hoping...
step on the scale at the end of the week and see a happy number.
I am hoping to have everyone do math and reading at least every day
I am hoping to have Sam's high school courses going.
I am hoping to keep the house in good order.
I am hoping not to lose my mind!

I am hearing... The air conditioner which actually masks the usual buzzing in my ears. I'm going to miss that!

Around the house...
I am going to tackle the classroom and Mt. Neverrest- the Laundry

A few plans for the rest of the week: Ditto above!

A picture I am sharing:

cross country September 2009 104
Gabe half way through his race taken with my new camera!






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