Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Clara recommends big families!



Depression cooking star, Clara, has a new DVD with 5 tips to survive the depression. Her number 1 tip, is family, because large families help each other and make each other happy!

Family is very important because in hard times everyone is on edge. Big family is important to have just to be with them makes you family, especially in times like this.

I'm always a big supporter of that!




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What's going on in My Domestic Church - the feeling sorry for myself edition

If you're not interested in reading a good whine - best to skip this post.

Starting with my mother - She was hospitalized Sunday night.(March 29) They know she has a bladder infection, but being dehydrated probably helped facilitate that. Being in her own waste for 13 hours didn't help much either. It was great to see her in her hospital room though. I feel better knowing that she is clean, dry, and most importantly, safe. I spoke with her doctor and the care planner. They also took her for a CAT scan yesterday to rule out stroke. If she can be in there for three midnights (and she has already been in for two and I haven't heard any talk about discharge yet) then she will be eligible with Medicare for 20 days of nursing home care. That would be great! They could keep an eye on this nasty decubitus ulcer which is very worrisome, as well as physical therapy and occupational therapy. From there we can figure out if we should stay in the nursing home, go to assisted living, or independent living with a home health aid, or even hospice.


Next up - EFC and my father's estate:

The attorneys for my father's estate left my husband a curt e-mail that they have reached a decision. Nothing in this case has ever gone well for us, so I expect my EFC will get to keep the money she embezzled and we'll probably get 2/3 of the crappy leftovers. I hate New Mexico. I vow to never ever set foot in that state again for as long as I live.

Our homeschool high school...sigh. Not passing that CLEP test really knocked the wind out of MY sails. I was really feeling bad about it but I brought it up to my Yahoo CLEP group and got a little hand holding along with a kick in the butt to keep going. So I think I will have Sam continue with History II, and give him a plan to keep up with History I until he can retake it in September. I'm also moving on to Biology. The deal we made was to concentrate all on one subject, take the CLEP and then focus heavily on history for the first part of the year, and Science of the second. We're going to start Biology and keep on it until September, but I'm also going to have him start History II.

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen




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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 03/31/2009

  • Some excellent ideas on how to talk with liberals!

    tags: politics, blogging, debate

  • tags: no_tag

    • Before the recession, the ranks of homeschool students had been growing by an estimated 8 percent annually; the latest federal figures, from 2007, calculate the total at about 1.5 million.

      While some families are giving up because of a stay-at-home parent's need to get a job, the recession overall will likely be a further boost to homeschooling, according to parents and educators interviewed by The Associated Press.

      'We're going to see continued growth," said Brian Ray, president of the National Home Education Research Institute in Salem, Oregon.

      "The reasons parents home-educate are not passing, faddish things."

      Christopher Klicka of Warrenton, Va., senior counsel for the Home School Legal Defense Association and co-teacher along with his wife of seven homeschooled children, says hard times enhance homeschooling's appeal as private school tuition becomes unaffordable and some public schools contemplate cutbacks.

      "People are looking to homeschooling as an alternative more now in light of economic circumstances," he said, citing its low cost and potential for strengthening family bonds


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Monday, March 30, 2009

Keeping it Real- The CLEP Test American History 1

Sam took the CLEP test today for US History I which covered from time immemorial to 1877. A score of 50 is considered passing, and could be considered a C in a college level American History Course.

I'd like to tell you Sam did that, but he didn't. He had a 42.

On the positive side:
Now we know where the testing center is and we have sort of made friends with the staff.
We know where to park.
It was only $80 to take the test.
Sam knows what to expect next time.
For a high school kid taking a college level course covering over 500 years, I think 42 is respectable.

On the negative side:
He can't take it again for six months.
It will cost another $80 making the total cost for the test alone $160 - that doesn't count my $20/ month Instacert subscription, the books I bought and the tapes I rented.
If he had just put a little more effort into it he could have made up the 8 stinking points he was shy to come up with the needed 50. But see, this was my idea, my goal and I don't think he sees totally the big picture of what an opportunity this is to get college credit now! instead of trying to pay tuition later.
I think I'm going to make him pay for it next time.


As a homeschool mom, I can't help but see this as my failure in a way. I was the kind of student who was anal about taking notes, studying hours a day, testing and trying myself until I walked into every test I took with confidence, not that I would pass, but that I would get an A.

Unfortunately, that kind of inner drive is not hereditary. And I have failed to transmit the importance of consistently good study skills to him.

For the rest of the year I want to work on study skills. I also want to have him go on and take the Dantes test, but just on the Civil War. Hopefully concentrating on just 50 years will be less daunting than trying to do over 500 years. I'd also like to try CLEP again for American Government and American Literature. But if I can't get him to accept the value of careful and consistent study as his own, I might just say "Heck with it" and let him figure out his own way to cover college costs.

We'll see.




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Simple Woman



Outside my window...
It is pitch dark - I just couldn't sleep - decided to get up and blog/work.

I am thinking...
how fortunate it was that I checked in on my mother yesterday. I tried to call her Saturday night but the phone company said her phone was off the hook. It was still off on Sunday morning. So after mass Sam, Gabe, Rosie and I headed over to grandma's to see if we could bring some fast food in for a Sunday dinner. But when we got there, her paper was still outside and I could hear the awful sound the phone makes when it is off the hook! My heart skipped a beat and I literally felt a sharp stabbing pain in my gut. I knew this was not good. Of course in my all-or-nothing mind, I was convinced we'd get the door open to find her dead. The reality was that she was too weak to get out of bed and she had been laying in her own waste all night. After getting a nurse in to evaluate her, we had her transported to the hospital and she was admitted so we can figure out what went wrong and to get her rehydrated. But I shudder to think what would have happened if I hadn't gone to check on her.

I am thankful for...instincts that are usually spot on - if I would only listen to them! I am also very thankful for Sam and Gabe. Despite the horrible smell in my mom's apartment, they helped me strip her bed and get her linens and nightgown washed. Sam also wiped down the mattress and helped Mr. Pete flip it over. Gabe helped let the paramedics in the building and watched Rosie. And Rosie was just sad for grandma. "My gwama don't feel good." Empathy at three years old is a very good sign.

From the learning rooms...Today Sam take the CLEP test in American History. He's either going to pass it, or he's not, but I think we're both sick of this hanging over our heads and anxious to get it over with.


From the kitchen... No clue. I spent 7 hours in the hospital with my mom yesterday and Mr. Pete got the groceries. I'll call him at work later and find out what he had in mind for dinner.


I am wearing...green pants and the short-sleeved pink ribbed knit shirt with my black workout jacket on top.

I am creating...memories for my children as we get ready to recognize the season of Lent.

I am going... try to get in 3 walks this week. I got three walks in last week. I am also going to resume that ab tape. One of the things I realize from y mother's debility is how important it is for us ladies to keep our abs and arms strong and toned, because those are very important muscles that keep us mobile and active in our later years.

I am reading... Losing It: And Gaining My Life Back One Pound at a Time It's Valerie Bertinelli's autobiography. I always enjoyed her as a teen and when we were both young adults. Her story so far though has been rather disappointing. Still good for her for getting back into amazing shape.



I am hoping... to get mom into assisted living this week - it's pretty clear that independent living is no longer going to be an option.

I am hearing... nothing. The buzzing in my ears is even silent for now.

Around the house... I'm taking a break today. i just feel really drained from yesterday's happenings. Although I will be typing, working out the assisted living thing, taking Sam to practice his Organ and to the CLEP test - so it's not THAT much of a break.

A few plans for the rest of the week:Keep up with my typing, work in some exercise, keep the house reasonably in order until the weekend.

A picture I am sharing:
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My Irish Twins born 15 months apart.





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Saturday, March 28, 2009

How Starbucks Saved My Life - A review




I mentioned last week that I finished the book How Starbucks Saved My Life: A Son of Privilege Learns to Live Like Everyone Else. What a delightful read!

In a nutshell, the author, Michael Gates Gill, writes about his experiences in the high pressure world of advertising as an executive, and what happened to him when he was unexpectedly fired. You probably know some of Mike's work - he did the "Looking for a Few Good Men" campaign for the Marines back in the 70s. His career required him to move all over the country and miss a lot of time with his family including one Christmas Eve when FORD decided to shoot a commercial for a New Years Day sale. Mike was 110% a company man. Yet despite his seniority and experience, or maybe because of it, the company sent another senior executive, one of Mike's former subordinates whom he had mentored for years, to let him go at a brief breakfast meeting.

That's only the first chapter or so in the book. The rest focuses on the surprise job offer from Starbucks when Mike was visiting one day just to have a cup of coffee, and how his life changed as he found himself doing things he had never done before, like cleaning the bathroom, and unexpectedly finding that he enjoyed his new job!

I discovered this book when I saw a Q&A in Parade Magazine with some "experts" on dealing with the economy. Mr. Gill was one of the panelists. In these unsure times with so many folks losing jobs or falling on difficult times, this was an excellent chance to find out what it takes to start all over again. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to feel a little inspiration and encouragement!











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7- Quick Takes Friday the Saturday edition

Join Jen and the other Quicktakers over at the Conversion Diary.

1. Mom is actually doing and feeling better this week! She started an oral chemotherapy and a steroid and it seems to be turning her appetite around and getting her back to feeling better!

2. Sam takes the CLEP test on Monday in American History. I am really nervous for him. He has taken all three of the practice tests in the CLEP History of the United States I (REA) (Test Preps). The first time he got only 20% right and I postponed the test! The second test he was around 50% and now he is about at 62%. The American College Board suggests a score of 50 to pass and a grant of 3 college credits. So I remain hopeful that we can pull this off.

3. Saturday Soccer started today! Fun fun!!

4. Tomorrow I go to mass and sit with the RCIA folks and my goddaughter/niece, Mallory! I also will attend the RCIA with her. The following week we are going on a retreat with the RCIA folks. I am looking forward to this time of growing together in faith.

5. Speaking of RCIA, I have also been in charge of purchasing the gifts for the RCIA candidates. I bought several of these chaplets and was very pleased! I hope the recipients like them as well!

6. I connected on Facebook with two long lost friends, one of them from grade school! The other was the lady who was the doula at 4 of my children's births. It was great to reconnect with her.

7. We are doing a very different form of the Stations of the Cross this year. One of the stations has very difficult words - something about being grateful and willing to accept as painful a death as what is in store for me. I shudder at that. When I was in labor for my daughter Isadora, I made up my mind that I was going to offer up my suffering for the sake of my sister-in-law. I did pretty well with remembering that too until it turned into a medical emergency requiring a transfer, general anesthetic and an emergency C-section! I offered to suffer- and boy I got a chance to suffer above and beyond my plans. So I am very guarded when I pray that part, keeping fully in mind that God just might take me up on it!





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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 03/28/2009


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Friday, March 27, 2009

Learn More about Give



From Michelle Makin:
Maybe it’s just me, but I find federal legislation titled “The GIVE Act” and “The SERVE Act” downright creepy. Even more troubling: The $6 billion price tag on these bipartisan bills to expand government-funded national service efforts. Volunteerism is a wonderful thing, which is why millions of Americans do it every day without a cent of taxpayer money. But the volunteerism packages on the Hill are less about promoting effective charity than about creating make-work, permanent bureaucracies, and left-wing slush funds.

The House passed the “Generations Invigorating Volunteerism and Education Act” – or the GIVE Act – last week. The Senate took up the companion “SERVE Act” Tuesday afternoon. According to a Congressional Budget Office analysis of the Senate bill, S. 277, the bill would cost “$418 million in 2010 and about $5.7 billion over the 2010-2014 period.” And like most federal programs, these would be sure to grow over time. The bills reauthorize the Clinton-era Americorps boondoggle program and an older law, the Domestic Volunteer Service Act of 1973.

The programs have already been allocated $1.1 billion for fiscal 2009, including $200 million from the porkulus package signed into law last month. In addition to recruiting up to 250,000 enrollees in AmeriCorps, the GIVE/SERVE bills would create new little armies of government volunteers, including a Clean Energy Corps, Education Corps, Healthy Futures Corps, Veterans Service Corps, and and expanded National Civilian Community Corps for disaster relief and energy conservation. And that’s not all. Spending would include new funds for:

*Foster Grandparent Program ($115 million);

*Learn and Serve America. ($97 million);

*Retired and Senior Volunteer Program ($70 million);

*Senior Companion Program ($55 million);

*$12 million for each of fiscal years 2010 through 2014 for “the Silver Scholarships and Encore Fellowships programs;”

*$10 million a year from 2010-2014 for a new “Volunteers for Prosperity” program at USAID to “award grants to fund opportunities for volunteering internationally

in coordination with eligible organizations; and

*Social Innovation Fund and Volunteer Generation Fund-$50 million in 2010; $60 million in 2011; $70 million in 2012; $80 million in 2013; and $100 million in 2014.

“Social Innovation Fund?” If that sounds familiar, it should. I reported last fall on the Democratic Party platform’s push to fund a “Social Investment Fund Network” that would reward “social entrepreneurs and leading nonprofit organizations” and “support results-oriented innovators.” It is essentially a special taxpayer-funded pipeline for radical liberal groups backed by billionaire George Soros that masquerade as public-interest do-gooders.

Especially troublesome to parents’ groups concerned about compulsory volunteerism requirements is a provision in the House version, directing Congress to explore “whether a workable, fair, and reasonable mandatory service requirement for all able young people could be developed, and how such a requirement could be implemented in a manner that would strengthen the social fabric of the Nation and overcome civic challenges by bringing together people from diverse economic, ethnic, and educational backgrounds.”

Those who have watched AmeriCorps from its inception are all-too-familiar with how government voluntarism programs have been used for propaganda and political purposes. AmeriCorps “volunteers” have been put to work lobbying against the voter-approved three-strikes anti-crime initiative in California and protesting Republican political events while working for the already heavily-tax-subsidized liberal advocacy group ACORN.





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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 03/27/2009

  • tags: finance, homemaking, coupons

  • tags: obama, current, events, areyousorryyet?

    • So implies the Serve America Act (S. 277).[1] Serve America is the Senate's attempt to turn into reality President Obama's campaign promises about public service. Since the campaign, Obama has described these promises as the start of a new era of selflessness and civic responsibility. But in practice, the bill (and its House companion, the Generations Invigorating Volunteering and Education Act, or GIVE[2]) hearkens back to an old era and to the old ideas of someone Congress should hesitate to mimic in a recession: Herbert Hoover.
  • Forced volunteerism is on the way!

    tags: Obama, current, events, areyousorryyet?

    • The Generations Invigorating Volunteerism and Education Act, known
      as the GIVE Act -- sponsored by Reps. Carolyn McCarthy, D-N.Y, and George Miller, D-Calif. -- was approved by a 321-105
      vote and now goes to the Senate.

      The legislation, slated to cost $6 billion over five years, would create 175,000 "new
      service opportunities" under AmeriCorps, bringing the number of participants in the national volunteer program to 250,000.
      It would also create additional "corps" to expand the reach of volunteerism into new sectors, including a Clean Energy Corps,
      Education Corps, Healthy Futures Corps and Veterans Service Corps, and it expands the National Civilian Community Corps to
      focus on additional areas like disaster relief and energy conservation.

    • But
      the bill's opponents -- and there are only a few in Congress -- say it could cram ideology down the throats of young "volunteers,"
      many of whom could be forced into service since the bill creates a "Congressional Commission on Civic Service."
    • "I think this is a problem that is rife throughout the federal government.
      When you dramatically expand the program, then you dramatically expand the ability for these left-wing advocacy organizations
      to get more funding. I don't see a lot of attention being paid to that, even from those who are critical. That's where the
      focus should be. Republicans tend to say its not that they oppose the program, they just want to spend less money. It's the
      program that's bad."
  • Good list to keep in mind for wedding planning.

    tags: pre-Cana, weddings

  • I can't say this was the will of God. I can't say that it was not. I do believe everything happens for a reason though. What are the chances of this happening though?

    tags: abortion, current, events

    • Abortion chain owner's family died in MT cemetery plane crash - near Tomb of the Unborn
  • Approval rating for economy and national security dips to 48%.

    tags: areyousorryyet?

    • For the second straight week, 48% of all voters say that the President is doing a good or excellent job handling the economy. Thirty-three percent (33%) say he is doing a poor job in that arena (Premium Members can see data and trends).



      Forty-eight percent (48%) also say the President is doing a good or excellent job on national security issues. That’s down four points from a week ago and the first time his numbers have dipped below 50% on the national security front.


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Thursday, March 26, 2009

Putting in FOCA one piece at a time.

This just came in my e-mail:



The Cleveland Diocese and the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops are urging Catholics to take action against the proposal by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services to rescind federal laws that currently protect the right of conscience of health care professionals. The proposal would jeopardize the jobs of those who refuse to participate in immoral acts that violate the natural law and the teachings of the Church, such as surgical abortions, abortifacient drugs, and euthanasia. Even health care professionals at Catholic hospitals would be affected. You may comment online through the easy-to-use ACTION ALERT (which includes information and suggested comments) on the Diocesan prolife website at www.clevelandcatholiccharities.org/prolife. Click on the link that says “Protect Conscience

Rights in Health Care:
Respond to President Obama’s 30-day Comment Period.” Comments can also be submitted electronically by e-mail to proposedrescission@hhs.gov. If you prefer, you may register your objections via U.S. mail (send one original and two copies) addressed to: Office of Public Health and Science, Dept. of Health and Human Services, Attn: Rescission Proposal Comments, Hubert H. Humphrey Building, 200 Independence Avenue SW, Room 716G, Washington, DC 20201.



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40 ways to improve your Lent

From the Milwaukee Catholic Herold by way of Hawaii!! Mahalo Esther!


1. Learn about your patron saint.

2. Pray for — by name — people you don’t like and for people that don’t like you.

3. Participate in a healing service.

4. Read a Catholic magazine every time you visit the library.

5. March 19, in honor of St. Joseph, patron saint of carpenters and fathers, build or build upon a relationship with one of your children.

6. Buy two of everything on your grocery list, and give the duplicates to the local food pantry.

7. Find out why you should have fun on Laetare Sunday, and then do so.

8. Start a “cuss bowl.” For every unkind word you utter, put in a dollar — two dollars during Holy Week. After Easter, give the money to an English as a second language program.

9. Bring a “Baltimore Catechism” to a gathering of Catholic friends, and start asking each other questions.

10. Give away a material item you really value.

11. Pray for those, e.g., children, parents, spouse, siblings, who have left the church.

12. Talk to a neighbor you rarely or never talk to.

13. Keep a dish of ashes in a prominent place as a constant reminder of the season.

14. Receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

15. Test your knowledge of Scripture.

16. Read a biography about Archbishop Oscar Romero and/or watch the video “Romero.”

17. Open a Christmas Club account with the intention of giving the money to the Society of St. Vincent de Paul.

18. Visit a church when you don’t have to.

19. Reserve a button on your car stereo for the Relevant Radio station in your area.

20. Pray the news — for the people whose stories of hardship are reported daily and weekly.

21. Read an entry from a Catholic encyclopedia.

22. Attend Mass at a parish other than your own

23. Tithe your tax return.

24. If Catholic schools get NCAA tournament bids, learn for whom those schools were named.

25. Observe five minutes of silence every day.

26. Instead of watching the Academy Awards on Feb. 27, watch “The Passion of the Christ.”

27. Use a Lenten theme in decorating part of a room.

28. Memorize a Proverb.

29. Participate in a faith formation presentation.

30. Tell someone your story(ies) of faith, how God has made a difference in your life.

31. Disconnect the TV and/or the computer.

32. Identify your God-given gifts, how you use them, and how you could use them better.

33. Fast from gossip.

34. Pull the rosary out of your drawer and say it. Too boring? Say the Scriptural rosary.

35. Remove your watch before leaving for church on Palm Sunday.

36. Develop a prayer list.

37. Read a history of the papacy.

38. Find out who Raamah, Putiel, and Uzzah are.

39. Sacrifice your time in order to help others.

40. In the words of St. Francis of Assisi, “Preach the Gospel at all times, and when necessary use words.”



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40 Ways to Get the Most out of Lent | Lenten Resources, Ideas, Activities, Devotions, Themes -Welcome to The Crossroads Initiative

40 Ways to Get the Most out of Lent |By Dr. D'Ambrosio Lots more ideas on his site!
# Get up earlier than anyone else in your house and spend your first 15 minutes of the day thanking God for the gift of life and offering your day to Him.
# Get to daily Mass.
# If you can’t do Mass daily, go to Mass on Fridays in addition to Sunday and thank Him for laying his life down for you. Maybe you can go another time or two as well.
# Spend at least 30 minutes in Eucharistic adoration at least one time during the week.
# Recover the Catholic tradition of making frequent visits to the Blessed sacrament throughout the week, even if it is only for 5 minutes.
# Get to confession at least once during Lent after making a good examination of conscience.
# In addition to the penance assigned by the priest, fulfill the conditions necessary for a plenary indulgence. You can learn about plenary indulgences from the official Handbook of Indulgences.
# Make a decision to read at least some Scripture every day. Starting with Today's!
# Even if you can’t get to daily Mass, get a Daily Roman Missal or go visit the Crossroads Homepage for a link to the Daily Mass readings, and read these readings daily. During special seasons such as Lent, the Mass readings are thematically coordinated and make for a fantastic Bible study!
# Pray the Liturgy of the Hours. You can buy a one volume edition or a full four volume edition. Or you can get it day by day online for free at www.universalis.com. Or you can subscribe to a monthly publication called the Magnificat that provides a few things from the liturgy of the hours together with the Mass readings of the day. The Magnificat is a great way to start learning the Liturgy of the Hours.
# Get to know the Fathers of the Church and read selections from them along with Scripture. Short selections from the Fathers writing on Lenten themes can be downloaded for free from the Lenten Library of our website at www.crossroadsintiative.com
# Make the Stations of the Cross each Friday either with a group or by yourself. If you have kids, bring them.
# Online Catholic Resources for LentPray the Sorrowful Mysteries of the Rosary often during Lent, especially on Friday and Wednesday. The glorious mysteries are especially appropriate on Sundays. Joyful and Luminous mysteries are great on other days.
# Purchase the Scriptural Rosary, which supplies you with a scripture verse to recite between each Hail Mary. This makes it easier to meditate on the mysteries. Another resource to deepen your understanding of the Rosary is my CD set “How Mary and the Rosary can Change Your Life.”
# If you’ve never done a family rosary, begin doing it. If starting with once a week, try Friday or Sunday. If it’s tough to start with a full five decades, try starting with one. Use the Scriptural Rosary and have a different person read each of the Scriptures between the Hail Marys. This gets everyone more involved.
# Make it a habit to stop at least five times a day, raise your heart and mind to God, and say a short prayer such as “Jesus, I love you,” or “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner,” or “Lord, I offer it up for you.”
# Pray each day for the intentions and health of the Holy Father.
# Pray each day for your bishop and all the bishops of the Catholic Church.
# Pray for your priests and deacons and for all priests and deacons.
# Pray for the millions of Christians suffering under persecution in various Muslim and Communist countries around the world such as the Sudan, Pakistan, Indonesia, China, Viet Nam, and North Korea.
# Pray for Christian unity, that there would be one flock and one shepherd.
# Pray for the evangelization of all those who have not yet heard and accepted the Good News about Jesus.
# Pray for your enemies. In fact, think of the person who has most hurt you or who most annoys you and spend several minutes each day thanking God for that person and asking God to bless him or her.
# Pray for an end to abortion on demand in the United States. Pray for pregnant women contemplating abortion.
# Pray for a just peace in Iraq, Afghanistan, the Holy Land and elsewhere. Pray for our troops and for others in harm’s way.
# Pray for an end to capital punishment. Pray for those on death row, and for the families of murder victims.
# Find a form of fasting that is appropriate for you, given your age, state of health, and state of life. Some fast on bread and water on Wednesdays and Fridays. Some fast from sweets or alcohol throughout Lent. Some fast on one or more days per week from breakfast all the way to dinner, spending lunch hour in prayer or at noon Mass. Some cut out all snacks between meals. The money saved from not buying various things should be given to an apostolate or ministry serving the physically or spiritually poor.
# Prayer is like breathing – you have to do it continually. But sometimes you need to pause and take a very deep breath. That’s what a retreat is. Plan a retreat this Lent. It could be simply a half day, out in nature, or in a Church. Or it could be a full day. Or an overnight. You can certainly read lots of things during your retreat or listen to lots of talks. But try sticking to Scripture, the liturgy, and quiet as much as you can. During or at the end of the retreat, write down what the Holy Spirit seems to be saying.
# Find a written biography of a Saint that particularly appeals to you, and read it during Lent.




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Small Successes

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1. Last week I had Sam take a practice CLEP test and he totally bombed on it. I don't think the kid is a good test taker. But we worked on the ones he got wrong and he took it again and got better than 50% (50% on CLEP is passing and credit worthy). This week I had him take the second CLEP practice test and he did better than 60% - so I am thinking he might just do very well on the actual test next week!

2. I picked up another account to work on thank goodness! It's a sports medicine account which has a lot of orthopedics in it. So it's interesting and it will keep me from running out of work.

3. Well this isn't really my success but I'm awfully darn proud of her - My niece and goddaughter graduated summa cum laude from Ohio State University last weekend. She has also been accepted to graduate school with a scholarship. This weekend we start our journey towards her confirmation in the Catholic Church this Easter.





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Another loss of freedom

The change we can believe in (because it seems like we BETTER believe in it OR ELSE) keeps moving on.

If you were thinking about planting a garden this summer to help cut food costs - think again. You just might have to get a permit for that tomato plant!




APC: Action Central > Sledgehammer: "H.R. 875 makes NAIS look tame. This bill will not just sweep up commercial food operations. The fine print of the FSMA will subject hobby gardeners, home canners, anyone with a few chickens, or anyone who 'holds, stores, or transports food' - including mushrooms or wild berries gathered in the wild - to registration, extensive management, and inspection by a huge new bureaucracy, the Food Safety Administration (FSA)- even if the food items will only be consumed personally. And registration must be via 'an electronic portal,' which will be costly and difficult for those without computers."

And forget looking for that vintage Barbie or other doll you loved as a kid! Apparently the lead in it addled your brain, so of course in steps the government and poof... no more vintage dolls available for your kids or grandkids!

The internet is a-hum with reactions to a proposal by West Virginia state representative Jeff Eldridge (D-Big Ugly) to ban Barbie dolls “and other similar dolls that promote or influence girls to place an undue importance on physical beauty to the detriment of their intellectual and emotional development.” That idea is predictably going nowhere (at least in West Virginia: Montpelier, Vt. is said to have voted a Barbie ban*), but Eldridge can perhaps take consolation in that CPSIA has already (with virtually no media taking note of the fact) banned the sale of vast numbers of vintage Barbies that pose equal dangers of symbolic or psychological impairment, if not of actual physical dangers. This 1999 New York Times piece describes how Mattel was “beginning an effort to eliminate” the use of polyvinyl chloride (PVC) compounds in the dolls, and that environmental activist groups contended that PVC often included lead as well as (less surprisingly) the plastic softeners phthalates, some but not all of which are banned by the law. dollsanddollclothes As Denise Van Patten noted in an About.com write-up in January, it is not clear what old dolls are still going to be lawful to sell, distribute or give away under CPSIA, if they cannot be fit into the “adult collectible” exception that covers items so expensive they will be kept out of children’s hands. Soft plastic is only the beginning of the problem. Most older dolls have paint as a component — often only in the rendering of the eyes, but that’s enough to count as a resale red flag under the CPSC’s Feb. 9 guidelines. Hair and dyed fabric, both of unknown composition? Buttons or snaps in the garment, or worse yet, rhinestones? About the only such plaything a thrift shop would not advised to discard under the guidelines would be an unpainted and unvarnished rigid humanoid figurine of raw wood or cast aluminum. If your child does find one of those on a thrift store shelf, she’s welcome to cuddle it all she pleases.


Here's the change I'm holding on to. We only have to put up with this crap until November. Then it will be one year before the midterm elections and the campaigning will start all over again. Then in 2010 we have a chance to change the face of congress and get some control over this monster we have invented that is putting us in debt and eating our freedoms away. But I fear it will get worse before it gets better.
U.S. Sen. Judd Gregg told CNN’s Lou Dobbs Wednesday night that the United States would be turned into a “banana republic” by the Obama administration’s budget plan.

President Barack Obama’s budget, Gregg explained, “puts on the books a massive amount of debt. It doubles our national debt in five years, triples it in 10 years. And as far as the eye can see, essentially, it is running deficits of over $1 trillion a year.

“And you just can't afford that,” said Gregg, R-N.H, who was Obama’s choice for secretary of commerce before he withdrew his name over what he described as philosophical differences. “We get up to -- it's a technical term, but we get up to a public debt ratio to GDP of 80 percent, which is about twice what most people think is sustainable. And if we maintain that level, which is projected in the president's budget, you basically -- you're running a banana republic is what it comes down to. You can't afford to pay those debts.”







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Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Some blogging thoughts and teaching our daughters about rape.

I have recently tip toed back into the world of liberal blogs because I was curious to read about the overall reaction to President Obama's administration some 45 days or so into it. Long time readers will know that when I started blogging about 5 years ago, I was not afraid to dive right in and converse, discuss, debate, and defend with people who did not necessarily share my world view or philosophies. Long time readers will also know that about a year or so ago I stopped doing it. Apparently it is unacceptable and inappropriate for a stay-at-home mom, wife, mother, homeschooler, Christian to spend any kind of time purusing those types of discussions and I received several admonishments for doing so. My favorite ones made the side bar.

My most recent venture into liberal land has reaffirmed for me that I no longer want to participate in those types if of discussions, at least not without a pseudonym and most definitely with no links back to this blog. If anything the rhetoric and hateful speech in those sites has escalated over time while any thoughtful or compelling arguments has decreased. It now seems to me that liberal blogs and many of the folks who comment on them will no longer accept any voice that isn't singing in their key. If I want to feel bashed and punished I'll go slam my hand in the car door. I don't need to receive cruelty from strangers on the internet, and I don't want my kids and family threatened either.

Also, I am no longer linking to arguments that I might find interesting from that side of the blogosphere. I used to do that to keep track of discussions and alsoto  encourage other people to join me with whatever cause I was battling. It never worked out that way and once it was even detrimental, so I may talk vaguely about other stuff going on, but the linky goodness won't be forthcoming.


That all said, one of the things stirring up angry feelings this week are the comments made by Bill O'Reilly from Fox News regarding the abuse of alcohol and rape.

These were O'Reilly's comments from last August:

O'REILLY: So anyway, these two girls come in from the suburbs and they get bombed, and their car is towed because they're moronic girls and, you know, they don't have a car. So they're standing there in the middle of the night with no car. And then they separate because they're drunk. They separate, which you never do. All right.
Now Moore, Jennifer Moore, 18, on her way to college. She was 5-foot-2, 105 pounds, wearing a miniskirt and a halter top with a bare midriff. Now, again, there you go. So every predator in the world is gonna pick that up at two in the morning. She's walking by herself on the West Side Highway, and she gets picked up by a thug. All right. Now she's out of her mind, drunk.
And the thug takes her over to New Jersey in the cab and kills her and rapes her and does all these terrible things to her. And the thug is so stupid, he uses her cell phone, and the cops trace it back to him and they -- and they arrest him and charge him with murder. He had a prostitute girlfriend with him, and she's charged as an accessory to murder. But Jennifer Moore is in the ground. She's dead.
  A 2- second Google Search will find that most of the left is demonizing Bill O'Reilly, claiming that he blamed the victim for her own murder and rape.  Some of them go on and on about how rapists are criminal and they're the ones at fault regardless of what a woman is wearing or doing, there is never any excuse for committing rape.

Fine. I agree.

I also agree that maybe Mr. O'Reilly could have used a little more sensitivity in his comments. 

That all said, the left's outrage towards Bill O'Reilly reminds me of a driving situation that Mr. Pete and I had a few weeks ago.  I was approaching an intersection and I had the right of way, but the car coming up to my right didn't show any signs of slowing down.

"What are you slowing down for? We have the right of way!" exclaimed Mr. Pete.

and while that was very true and would have been true even if the guy ran right into us, being right would be sore consolation for the damage and injury that could have resulted from going through the intersection and getting into a collision.

And that's what I want my daughers and my sons to understand. It is never okay to violate another human being. But it is equally and maybe even more important to protect yourself from being violated!  So I want them to dress sensibily when they go out, travel in a pairs or better yet, with a group, most importantly I want them to stay aware of their surroundings and the people around them.  It's just really hard to do all of that and maintain the use of good judgement while intoxicated.

That's the bottom line of Bill O'Reilly's message. For the all the rhetoric against him, I hope those little kernals of truth stand out to young women.






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Today my little boy, my youngest son, turns 11 years old.

Noah was born almost three years after his brother Gabe. Gabe was my first homebirth baby and my second VBAC. He had been born joyfully  in my living room surrounded by my husband, midwife, doula and a close family friend. I had hoped to duplicate that with Noah's birth.

But things had changed over those three years. A few months before we had discovered that something just wasn't "right" with my mother. She just sounded a little strange and inappropriate over the phone and I couldn't quite put my finger on the problem. But when her phone service was discontinued for nonpayment my sister and I started pleading for her to come and be with us. After begging my EFC to send her to us, mom arrived on a train with no winter coat, an empty suitcase, dirty and disoriented. We found out later that she was suffering from a massive brain tumor that had taken up most of her frontal lobe. One month before my due date, doctors removed Mom's brain tumor in a 15 hour marathon operation that left one of her hands partially disabled.  After her discharge from the hospital she was living with us while recovering and waiting for her next grandchild to arrive. 

So Noah's eminent birth was a little stressful to say the least. I remember thinking that we would be lucky if he wasn't born with gray hair from all of the stress we were under!

Nonetheless, a month after my mom's operation we were getting ready for a baby. The house was clean and we had all of our birthing supplies. As I was overdue (which seemed to be my norm) I tried a castor oil milk shake on Mr. Pete's birthday, hoping that our little guy would share his daddy's birthday. But Noah had other plans and waited three more days to make his appearance.

On the day of his birth I remember we had a big pot of stew simmering on the stove and some homemade bread of some sort and some other goodies. I didn't want the doctor who was coming or my doula or any of the kids not to have something to eat while we were waiting for the baby to show up. I remember that it was also very close to Easter and I also had a big plate of jelly beans on the table and the kids ate more of those than any of the stew.

The doctor had a long drive to come visit. He was the only physician I knew who attended home births and he also shared our Catholic faith and homeschooling ideals so he was a good find and we were blessed to have him attend us. My labor didn't really start moving until he came through the door. The rest of the labor was kind of unordinary. My sister had taken my mother out that evening. I don't remember if it was because we didn't want her there or if she didn't want to be there, but I do remember that by 10 that evening, I still hadn't had the baby but my sister brought mom home anyway. I remember at the time feeling that it was a good thing to have both of them there for the baby's birth but my sister was reluctant to stay and my mom made a speedy retreat to her room. I'll never understand that.

The result was labor stalled for a bit but when it finally got going again I remember standing up and the baby came right down. By that time my other children had long since grown bored with labor and were playing games upstairs. My friend ran to get them and I could hear their little feet thundering down the stairs just in time to watch their little brother make a very quick entrance into the world.

And then my mother, who couldn't bear to watch the labor or actual birth, came out of her room like a kid on Christmas morning and became the first person after me and Mr. Pete to hold Noah in her arms.

For the many months after that while I was recovering, taking care of the kids, or working my mom spent hours in her rocking chair holding Noah. I think he was the best medicine she could have had in recovery from her own surgery.

The poor doctor stayed a bit longer with me because he thought my bleeding was a bit more than he was comfortable with. I guess in the excitement he forgot about the stew and instead grabbed a burger on the way home. I remember feeling victorious and very very hungry!

So Noah wasn't born on his daddy's birthday, but instead was born on the feast of the annunciation, the day the church remembers the incarnation, the beginning of Christ's life inside his mother's womb, Mary's fiat to God through His messenger Gabriel! He chose a perfect day to be born.


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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 03/25/2009

  • Press release from Bishop John D'Arcy on the Obama commencement speech.

    tags: obama, abortion

    • On Friday, March 21, Father John Jenkins, CSC, phoned to inform me that President Obama had accepted his invitation to speak to the graduating class at Notre Dame and receive an honorary degree. We spoke shortly before the announcement was made public at the White House press briefing. It was the first time that I had been informed that Notre Dame had issued this invitation.
    • President Obama has recently reaffirmed, and has now placed in public policy, his long-stated unwillingness to hold human life as sacred. While claiming to separate politics from science, he has in fact separated science from ethics and has brought the American government, for the first time in history, into supporting direct destruction of innocent human life.
    • This will be the 25th Notre Dame graduation during my time as bishop. After much prayer, I have decided not to attend the graduation. I wish no disrespect to our president, I pray for him and wish him well. I have always revered the Office of the Presidency. But a bishop must teach the Catholic faith “in season and out of season,” and he teaches not only by his words -- but by his actions.
    • My decision is not an attack on anyone, but is in defense of the truth about human life.

       

      I have in mind also the statement of the U.S. Catholic Bishops in 2004. “The Catholic community and Catholic institutions should not honor those who act in defiance of our fundamental moral principles. They should not be given awards, honors or platforms which would suggest support for their actions.” Indeed, the measure of any Catholic institution is not only what it stands for, but also what it will not stand for.
  • The bishop will decline to attend when Obama speaks at Notre Dame! Good for him, although I was hoping for something a little stronger, but perhaps that must come from the Vatican?

    tags: Obama, abortion

    • And Tuesday, Bishop John D'Arcy announced that he will not be attending graduation ceremonies.



      In a statement released Tuesday afternoon, Bishop D'Arcy said, "After much prayer, I have decided not to attend graduation. I wish no disrespect to our president, I pray for him and wish him well."


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Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Homeschool Goodies » Catholic Carnival 217: The Feast of the Annunciation

Homeschool Goodies » Catholic Carnival 217: The Feast of the Annunciation



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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 03/24/2009


  • James M. Thunder chastizes the president of Notre Dame for the travesty of inviting pro-abortion Barack Obama to give the commencement address.

    • On Friday, March 20, it was announced that President Obama had
      accepted an invitation by the president of the University of
      Notre Dame, Father John Jenkins, to give the commencement address
      on May 19 and receive an honorary degree. What fire could not do,
      Father Jenkins and his Academic Council may succeed in doing --
      destroying a major Catholic institution.

    • Maybe Father Jenkins wants to honor Obama as the first
      African-American to become president. Undoubtedly this fact will
      be prominent in the biography the school will recite just prior
      to conferring the honorary doctorate upon him. (Frankly, there is
      no other achievement in his biography.) But this would be looking
      at the color of his skin over his policies.

    • Consider these policies and the burdens of Notre Dame honoring
      Obama. We must assume that Father Jenkins knows how hostile
      Obama, as state legislator, as U.S. senator, and now as
      president, has been to innocent human life and to the Catholic
      Church which tries to protect it. And Father Jenkins must have
      thought about the fact that inviting Obama would offend large
      numbers of students, the graduating seniors, alumni/ae,
      benefactors, and all pro-lifers through the country and the
      world. Moreover, it would constitute an attack on the pastoral
      authority of the local bishop, the American bishops as a group,
      and the Pope who have prohibited Catholic institutions from
      granting platforms to pro-abortion speakers -- even if their
      talks would not be about abortion and other human life issues.

    • It was just last month that Speaker Pelosi who, no doubt, sees
      herself as the Supreme Head of the Catholic Church in America,
      visited Pope Benedict, but Pope Benedict was politically aware
      and refused to give her a photo opportunity. Father Jenkins
      thinks he is smarter than the Pope and will purposefully smile
      with Obama for the cameras.

    • Obama's visit to Notre Dame will be a one-way street -- in favor
      of Obama. Father Jenkins will not be taking Obama to Notre Dame's
      woodshed, to speak truth to power. No, Obama will be doing all
      the talking. Obama will co-opt a major Catholic institution.

    • Father Jenkins
      will allow Obama to take Mary's mantle and wear it on his
      shoulders for all the world to see.


      The day Father Jenkins' presidency is over (soon one hopes),
      the new president, the loyal faculty and alumni/ae, and
      friends throughout the world will repeat Father Sorin's
      words, "Tomorrow, we will build again, and build it [better]."

  • I hope and pray that a STRONG rebuke does come!

    Not that I could ever afford it anyway but I would NEVER send one of my kids to Notre Dame - and my mother is a graduate of their sister college - St. Mary's.

    • Longtime Notre Dame philosophy professor Ralph McInerny poses a related question. If it is seriously wrong for a Catholic to support abortion, he asks: "Is it any worse to celebrate such a politician as Barack Obama? So where does that put ND President Father Jenkins?" McInerny argues:


      By inviting Barack Obama to be the 2009 commencement speaker, Notre Dame has forfeited its right to call itself a Catholic university. It invites an official rebuke. May it come.


    • School spokesman Dennis Brown tells The Associated Press that he doesn’t foresee a circumstance in which the school would rescind Obama’s invitation to speak at the May 17 event.
      Four of the past five presidents have spoken at the Notre Dame graduation. Obama will receive an honorary doctor of laws degree.

      He will be the ninth president to receive an honorary degree from Notre Dame and the sixth to deliver a commencement address. The others were: Dwight Eisenhower (1960), Jimmy Carter (1977), Ronald Reagan (1981), George H.W. Bush (1992), and George W. Bush (2001).

  • Jean Heimann is following the trial of famed abortionist George Tiller on her blog.


    • Until last week, Obama was able to shove blame for the recession onto the Republicans. Now, thanks to his own bungling and worse, Obama risks becoming more identified with the worst aspects of it than his predecessor.
      Obama’s behavior in recent days raises questions about what he really means by the word audacity, as in his book “The Audacity of Hope.” Many voters took this term as a new brand of courage, boldness and innovation. A handful are beginning to wonder whether audacity in Obama’s mind really means he thinks he can talk his way out of anything.
      As in picking basketball winners and losers on ESPN, or flying to Los Angeles to appear on a late-night comedy show, leaving White House aides and pliant media personalities to deal with the AIG bonus scandal.
      Duke University Coach Mike Krzyzewski said the president could make better use of his time fixing the economy. Other than Krzyzewski, it may be that nobody cares about AIG’s handing bonuses to incompetent executives after getting billions in taxpayer bailout money. Rahm Emanuel, White House chief of staff, brushed it off as a mere “distraction.” Obama’s senior adviser David Axelrod said “people are not sitting around their kitchen tables thinking about AIG.” Audacious or not, Emanuel, Axelrod and Obama may be right.

    • However, Obama has one big lemon hanging around his neck that he can’t shake off. And that is Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner, the ethically challenged man Obama put in charge of economic recovery. Geithner, as president of the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, helped design the AIG and other bailouts. It is as much Geithner’s responsibility as anyone that almost no information is available on where $360 billion in money went, and who got bonuses. This indispensable man couldn’t manage to send anyone from Treasury to testify at a House hearing on why bailout funds went to banks that already owed $220 million in unpaid federal taxes.
      Despite attempts by Emanuel and Axelrod to brush off the AIG scandal, panicked House Democrats passed a bill to tax $165 million in AIG bonuses retroactively. Spokesmen for Rep. Brian Higgins, D-Buffalo, said it is constitutional. I doubt it.
      Now Obama aides are sowing confusion over when, if ever, Geithner told his president about the bonuses over the last four months. So instead of transparency in the White House, which Obama promised, we have deniability.

  • More change you can believe in!



    • At a time when the federal government is spending billions of stimulus dollars to stem the tide of U.S. layoffs, should that same government put even more Americans out of work by buying cheaper foreign products?
      In this case, Chinese condoms.



      That's the dilemma for the folks at the U.S. Agency for International Development, which has distributed an estimated 10 billion U.S.-made AIDS-preventing condoms in poor countries around the world.
      But not anymore.
      In a move expected to cost 300 American jobs, the government is switching to cheaper off-shore condoms, including some made in China.
      The switch comes despite implied assurances over the years that the agency would continue to buy American whenever possible


  • This has certainly been my experience on liberal forums and blogs, and even a bit in real life verbal discussions.

    • When challenged, liberals often strike back emotionally, with name calling, character assassinations and discrediting anyone that disagrees with them because their feelings and self esteem are hurt when someone tries to prove that their opinion is faulty. Liberals often think that those who challenge their ideas are attacking them personally and they become combative. They would much rather discuss topics with like minded people who validate their opinions, rather than those who would challenge them. Liberal views are generally based on their own self esteem. They espouse opinions that make them feel good about themselves. This is why good intentions often out-way unintended consequences. Liberals are easily duped into supporting those who articulate positions that make them feel better about themselves. Tough love is wasted on liberals. Liberals often dismiss the cold hard truth as mean spirited.


    • There are growing indications that the Obama administration is melting down, unraveling and falling apart. The clearest indication is Barack Obama and his treasury secretary failing to come up with a plan to fix the bank/credit crisis. He is proposing solutions for every social problem ever identified by liberal Democrats, but doesn’t seem to be dealing with what should be his No. 1 priority. The bank fix is supposed to be announced by Secretary of the Treasury, Timothy Geithner, during this week.

      Nero fiddled while Rome burned, but the early days of the Obama administration will be remembered for his picking NCAA basketball tournament winners, appearing on “The Tonight Show with Jay Leno” and making fun of special needs children — while the American economy is burning.
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