Saturday, January 31, 2009

My Daily Domestic Diigolet 01/31/2009

  • Wow... how do we all manage to do it- raising a child on less than $2.5 million dollars each!

    tags: finance

    • Sophy said the expense of raising 14 children will likely be prohibitive, citing studies that estimate it costs roughly $2.5 million to raise a child to adulthood. Using that math, raising 14 children would cost roughly $35 million.






      "And that's basic stuff," he said. "That doesn't include swimming lessons and things like that. It's very costly and hopefully the planning that needs to be done was done upfront."






      Sophy continued, "14 is a large number of children, so yes, it'll be 14 times the stress."

  • Big push now to make midwifery legal. It only makes sense.

    tags: homebirth, birth, politics, midwifery

    • Nationally, a group called the Big Push for Midwives marked President Barack Obama's inauguration with an e-mail campaign urging him to ensure that midwives who specialize in home births are included in deliberations on federal health care reform.






      "We're at a tipping point now," said Katherine Prown, the Big Push campaign manager. "Home births are still only a small part of the total, but it's poised for growth."






      The campaign seeks to emphasize that in this time of economic crisis, home births can be a safe, satisfying and moneysaving option for many women. But it runs into adamant opposition from the American Medical Association and the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.

    • According to the latest federal data, there were only about 25,000 home births nationally in 2006 — most of them assisted by midwives — out of nearly 4.3 million total births.






      Midwife-attended home births increased by 27 percent between 1996 and 2006. Home-birth advocates believe the numbers will rise as more states amend their laws to accommodate the practice, which they contend is at least as safe as hospital births for healthy women with low-risk pregnancies.






      One of the strengths of the state-by-state campaign is its diversity, Prown said.






      "We're one of the few movements that's succeeded in bringing together pro-life and pro-choice activists, liberal feminists and Christian conservatives," she said. "In every state we manage to recruit Republican and Democratic co-sponsors who normally would never be on the same bill together."







      The states are now evenly split on legal recognition of certified professional midwives (CPMs) — those who lack nursing degrees and who account for most midwife-assisted home births

    • "There are many in the legislature who feel a need to have this option — they need to be educated," said Dr. Shastri Swaminathan, the society's president. "We're in strong opposition to licensing midwives who don't have the medical training to provide safe home births."






      Cost is a major element in the debate. A routine hospital birth often can cost $8,000 to $10,000, with higher bills for cesarean section deliveries that now account for 31 percent of U.S. births.






      Midwives' fees for home births are often less than a third of the hospital cost, in part because the mothers generally don't receive epidural anesthesia or various other medical interventions at home.






      For pregnant women, insurance coverage can be a decisive factor in their choice. Many insurers cover care by nurse-midwives in hospitals; coverage is less common for midwives who aren't nurses or who assist with home births.






      Many obstetricians acknowledge that the spiraling cost of maternity care and high rate of C-sections are problems.

    • Jane Peterson of Iola, Wis., is an example. She began a midwife apprenticeship in 1980 and has attended more than 1,330 births since then, many of them before she and her counterparts were legally authorized to practice under a 2005 state law.






      Peterson, 56, said she strives to develop collaborative relations with local doctors so that transfers to hospitals go smoothly if risk factors develop. She believes such cooperation should be encouraged nationwide, so more women can feel comfortable about choosing home births.






      "People will tell you that you changed their lives," said Peterson, reflecting on the rewards of her job.






      "It's hard work — getting up on a cold winter night, going out one more time through the snow. What keeps you going is the recognition women feel — as though they are a different kind of mother when they've been able to give birth their way."

  • The New Deal didn't work - and neither will Obama's Porkulus Package.

    tags: politics, history


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Friday, January 30, 2009

7-Quick Takes

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1.  I felt so sorry for Calvin this week.  He drove an hour up to Cleveland for two job interviews.  This was his first time driving into a city that size by himself- which can be nerve wracking enough, but with poor signage and less than helpful Mapquest directions he became a little befuddled.  To make matters worse he arrived at both interviews only to be told that because he was not yet 21, they couldn't hire him.  That was information that would have been nice to know WHEN THEY SET UP THE INTERVIEWS!  He has another interview next week - rest assured he is going to make sure they know that he will only be 20 in July.

2.  Which makes me wonder why the EMT courses allow students as young as 18 to enter, when apparently getting an EMT job at that age is going to be a lot harder.

3.  I just got our gas bill.  Despite making regular payments every month, they want to mess with us with a threatened shut off in February.  I am confident I can negotiate a deal, but I also got an additional note this week from our family doctor that it will be $100 EACH for taking two kids to the office for sore throats last August.  They ran it through the insurance first to get the deductions.  I like our doctor a lot but that just seems mind blowingly expensive - $200 for 15 to 20 minutes of face time?

4.  Where's my bailout?

5.  I'm wondering if any of the RINOs (Republican in Name Only) and CINOs (Catholic in Name Only) who voted for President Obama and the Democratic congress are having any regrets about their election choices now that they have had a chance to look over the so called stimulus package.  I think one commentator got it right when he said that bill had more pork on it than a pig!  And while I'm on the topic, why are we funding foreign abortions?

6.  I was watching an entertainment show last night that was ragging on how fat Jessica Simpson has gotten. (She hasn't. She actually looks pretty normal to me but she is no longer a size 0 to 2 so in Hollywood terms that must be enormous.)  One of the commentators said that Jessica was targeted because this is a slow news week...I kid you not!

7.  I thought about my late mother-in-law today.  When Mr. Pete and I were courting all those years ago, he spent a lot of time over at my house. A lot.  Even slept over on a sleeper couch many nights in the middle of our dining room instead of going home. (Of course he left a good 30 minutes away so a lot of times that made sense.)  I wonder if she missed her son? I wonder if he neglected things at his parents home because he was always over at mine?  I wish I had been more sensitive to that. What goes around comes around and I am certainly getting mine now.  So I said a little prayer and asked for her forgiveness.  I sure was a clueless girl. 










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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 01/30/2009

  • For years after my first birth, my family and friends couldn't understand why I had been so freaked out by my first birth experience. Afterall, I lived, the baby lived, we were both healthy, so what was the big deal. I remember mentioning this once to my brother-in-law who was a new health professional , and he quickly cut me off with "Let's not go over all of that again." and I never did. Not with him. Not with much of anyone else outside of my husband and my ICAN friends.

    So for moms who have been traumatized, and for folks who know someone who has been and are trying to figure out where they're coming from, this is a very enlightening essay.

    tags: birth, childbirth


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Thursday, January 29, 2009

An Ad you WON'T See at the Super Bowl.




CHICAGO, Jan. 29 /PRNewswire-USNewswire/ -- NBC has rejected an uplifting and positive pro-life ad submitted for its Super Bowl broadcast this Sunday. After several days of negotiations, an NBC representative in Chicago told CatholicVote.org today that NBC and the NFL are not interested in advertisements involving "political advocacy or issues."

"NBC claims it doesn't allow advocacy ads, but that's not true. They were willing to air an ad by PETA if they would simply tone down the sexual suggestiveness. Our ad is far less provocative, and hardly controversial by comparison," said Burch.

"The purpose of our new ad is to spread a message of hope about the potential of every human life, including the life of Barack Obama," said Burch. "We are now looking at alternative venues to run the ad over the next several weeks."



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Wednesday, January 28, 2009

If you're still reading Peach -



This guy explains the pro-life position so very well!




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Keeping better homeschool accountability

One of the things I wanted to do to make my homeschool portfolio more complete, was to blog a bit every day about what we accomplished in each subject. I made it a New Year's Resolution!

Anyway, I finally got around to designing a template that I think will make blogging about our homeschool a little easier. I got the idea from the Simple Woman Meme, but this is specifically more for homeschool.

Here's a sample of today's.I'll be using this from now on on my homeschooling blog

January 28, 2009
Today we…

Religion/worship
Learned about St. Thomas Acquinas including some cute stories about the great saint.

What we read

We read The Automobile in Stuart Little. Izzy read the story about staying overnight at Grandmother’s House in her Pathway Reader

What we wrote

Math pages
Izzy learned the 3 times tables. Noah and Gabe did math, but I have to check which chapters. Sam got a break- because of the snow day his tutor, Mr. Drexler couldn’t come. He is going to e-mail him a lesson.

Social studies/history

Science
Gabe re-read Chapter 3 in General Science

Art/music

Noah, Gabe and Sam practiced their instruments. Izzy is decorating cookies.

Teachable moments
Explained to Sam on the way to the grocery store why the "stimulus" package is doomed to fail and gave him an example of why Reagonomics worked!

Movies or other learning activities
Sam FINALLY finished the Mexican American War DVD by PBS.








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Works for me Wednesday- some homeschool/ supplemental school stuff



Here are two nice additions to spice up our homeschool/middle school life.

Book Adventure is a great way to find books for your children to read, or for you to read to your children. I have been struggling somewhat in trying to choose the next book for my middle schoolers since we finished The Witch of Blackbird Pond and Johnny Tremain. Book Adventure gave me two pages of suggestions along with reading level and brief synopses.

Book Adventure also provided me with a quiz that I could give to my children to see how well they understood the book. I can print out a copy of the quiz too for their portfolios. That's really a nice feature.

Some of you might remember using a site called Spelling Time. It was a good little program but then it went to subscription only last year. I also didn't like the fact that they closed up during the summer months. This week I found an nice alternative. It's called Spelling City. It allows me to create and save spelling lists and it provides several ways for the student to get the words into their heads! Very easy to use and absolutely free!

Anything that makes homeschooling a little easier for free, works for me!




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I'm just sayin...

Candy's new Youtube page takes comments.



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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

My Daily Domestic Diigolet 01/27/2009

  • A great comment in response to Pelosi's "save the economy with birth control" drivel.

    tags: politics

    • Welcome to Socialism 101. These scary people actually believe their own drivel or worse they are woefully ignorant about how economies work. This is what you get when hordes of non-voters are bused in to vote by commandment. Dependant lemmings vote in bad leaders.
  • An Obama, abortion, slap down!

    tags: obama, abortion, Catholic, vatican

    • A senior Vatican official on Saturday attacked US President Barack Obama for "arrogance" for overturning a ban on state funding for family-planning groups that carry out or facilitate abortions overseas.

      It is "the arrogance of someone who believes they are right, in signing a decree which will open the door to abortion and thus to the destruction of human life," Archbishop Rino Fisichella was quoted as saying by the Corriere della Sera daily.

      Fisichella is president of the Pontifical Academy for Life, one of a number of so-called pontifical academies which are formed by or under the direction of the Holy See.

      "What is important is to know how to listen... without locking oneself into ideological visions with the arrogance of a person who, having the power, thinks they can decide on life and death," he added.

      Obama signed the executive order cancelling the eight-year-old restrictions on Friday, the third full day of his presidency.

  • Welcome to the culture of death.

    and Shame on Nancy Pelosi's bishop if he does not reprimand her for this.

    tags: politics, contraception, birth, control

    • The revelation came during an exchange Sunday morning on ABC's THIS WEEK.



      STEPHANOPOULOS: Hundreds of millions of dollars to expand family planning services. How is that stimulus?



      PELOSI: Well, the family planning services reduce cost. They reduce cost. The states are in terrible fiscal budget crises now and part of what we do for children's health, education and some of those elements are to help the states meet their financial needs. One of those - one of the initiatives you mentioned, the contraception, will reduce costs to the states and to the federal government.


      STEPHANOPOULOS: So no apologies for that?



      PELOSI: No apologies. No. we have to deal with the consequences of the downturn in our economy.

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Monday, January 26, 2009

It' s Monday

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Preston - having fun at Sam's Party!




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SImple Woman



Outside my window..
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I am thinking... Sam and I have a lot to do to get ready for his CLEP test. I also really want to work on the kid's reading and writing today. Lastly at mass I decided that I am going to just focus on the Lord and not to be too anxious about the times we are living in.

I am thankful for... the good friends in this wonderful neighborhood. We have been very blessed.

From the learning rooms...CLEP for Sam, and a lot of emphasis on writing this week with Noah and Gabe.

From the kitchen... George Foreman Chicken!

I am wearing...jeans, and my red PreCana team shirt because it's nice and warm.

I am creating... a new schedule and new files for my new computer! Also some lesson art plans for the kids.

I am going... to really work on that exercise program this week. I managed to get in two workouts last week with The Firm: Total Sculpt Plus Abs


I am reading...Moby-Dick
Moby Dick with Sam and and Stuart Little
Stuart Little with the Gabe and Noah. We will also start Minn of the Mississippi

I am hoping...to manage to get the kids to the library today! and get in more science and history this week.

I am hearing...my normal low ear buzz, but not as much as usual. Other than that it is quiet. Mr. Pete left for work and everyone else is still sleeping.

Around the house...Cleaning up from Sam's big "Dude, I'm 16!" Birthday Bash!!

A few plans for the rest of the week:Buckle down with that exercise program. Start teaching the Angelus Prayer. And there are a lot of saints to study this week!

A picture to share! From Sam's Birthday Bash!
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My creation

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Sunday, January 25, 2009

My Daily Domestic Diigolet 01/25/2009


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Saturday, January 24, 2009

7- Quick Takes Friday the Saturday edition

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1. My plans to work for another transcription company may now be over. It was 1 cent less per line, but it was A LOT more work. Despite sending in my resume with all of my experience, I was doing a lot of nephrology transcription, which I have never done before in my life! and apparently after 20 days or so they weren't happy with how I was progressing. So I don't know. It's been my experience in the past that if a supervisor decides you're not working out, it doesn't do much good to try to prove them wrong.

2. Interestingly I am not upset with this development. I was becoming a part-time homeschooler and a full-time transcriptionist and at this point in my life, that's not what I'm looking for.

3. My other transcription work is backed up so I will be spending a lot of time working on those this weekend PLUS getting ready for Sam's 16th birthday party!

4. I will have a house full of teenagers in about 4 hours. I can't believe it!

5. I played my flute for confirmation last night. Sam and Gabe sang for it too. It was nice, but it got me thinking that next year will be Gabe's turn to be confirmed. He has Soooo much work to do between now and then.

6. Mr. Pete spent two hours on the phone yesterday having a teleconference with two attorneys in New Mexico and my evil first cousin. I am really impressed with how Mr. Pete familiarized himself with all of the paper work and properties involved in this trust from my father. He thinks he has both attorneys thinking that the two options he proposed were reasonable. My evil first cousin (EFC) didn't like any of it, because it doesn't leave everything to her without question. Anyway, I'm really proud of my husband for tackling this because my sister and I have pretty much abdicated. It seemed too hopeless to ever settle, and EFC seemed to devious to ever conquer. But now I'm having some hope.

7. I discovered that in my circle of close friends, I am the ONLY one who has not gone through menopause yet. Of course, I was the last to start my family too and I also was the oldest to have a baby at 46. So maybe that has something to do with it.

OK, so now I'm into heavy party prep - have a great weekend!









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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 01/24/2009

  • Ah! There's that "we're one country" "let's come together" attitude!! Way to lead Prez Obama.

    tags: obama

    • President Obama listened to Republican gripes about his stimulus package during a meeting with congressional leaders Friday morning - but he also left no doubt about who's in charge of these negotiations. "I won," Obama noted matter-of-factly, according to sources familiar with the conversation
  • The senate gets another Republican. Surprising but welcome news.

    tags: politics

    • ALBANY - Gov. Paterson, defying the liberal wing of his Democratic Party, has chosen little-known, NRA-backed, upstate Congresswoman Kirsten Gillibrand to succeed Hillary Rodham Clinton as New York's junior senator, it was learned last night.


      The surprising - and, for many Democrats shocking - decision to pick the conservative Gillibrand, 42, from Hudson in Columbia County, was disclosed by the governor in calls to party officials and some members of the state's congressional delegation, many of whom said they were unhappy with the selection, sources said.


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Friday, January 23, 2009

Abortion don'ts

Father Thomas Euteneuer is a faithful priest and a strong defender of life, but I do NOT agre with some of the points he made in his most recent newsletter.

Spirit and Life: "DON'TS

1. Above all, do not grow despondent: there is much to fear for the situation of life around the world, but we are not permitted by our Christian faith to give up our efforts or zeal for life. In fact, we need to redouble it!

2. Do not become absorbed in the quest for a political solution to abortion: after 36 years of working for a political solution to abortion, we may soon see the wiping out of most, if not all, of the pro-life movement's gains with the stroke of a pen. Politics has failed. Or rather, we have failed at politics. Either way, politics now offers us little chance of anything other than just trying to slow the massive momentum of the culture of death.

3. Do not waste any more energy on overturning Roe: two Supreme Court seats are assured during an Obama administration, and they will undoubtedly be filled with extreme pro-abortion activist judges. A third appointment will leave us with no hope of overturning Roe in anyone's lifetime reading this. For that matter, the chance that a good pro-life President will succeed Obama in four years and nullify the leftward lurch of the high court is, shall we say, unlikely. Let's get hopes of undoing Roe out of our system and focus on more productive things."


While I agree with #1, I am not so sure about 2 and I definitely disagree with 3.

While President Obama did say that he would sign the FOCA act as soon as he got into office, he has many other issues that need his immediate attention. Right now that is the economy and national security. So it may be that he will not be able to focus on life issues for a while. I am assuming that he wants a second term as well. With only a 53% of the popular vote including that middle group of uncommitted and apparently easily mislead voters that sways with the wind, I don't think he is going to want to go as totally radical on this as the far left would like. That might be wishful thinking on my part, but as a strategy, I just don't see it.

Thirdly, there is another election for congress in 2 years! We can totally turn this around with midterm elections and although President Obama might want to pass certain legislation or make radical judicial appointments, in two years that might be much more difficult to do.

So while I understand that Father Euteneur might be a bit discouraged by recent events, I still see plenty of reasons to remain politically engaged.

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My Daily Domestic Diigolet 01/23/2009

  • Well Catholics who voted for Obama "hoping" that he was going to change his mind now have a reason to head for the confessional. By executive order, the US will now be supporting abortion on a global station.

    We told you.

    tags: abortion, catholics, obama

    • Officials with the incoming administration
      of Barack Obama have confirmed that he will indeed overturn a pro-life
      policy of President Bush on his first day in office. Despite campaigning
      on the rhetoric of wanting to reduce abortions, Obama will make one
      of his first actions promoting them globally.


      Meanwhile,
      some 77 members of Congress have signed onto a letter asking Obama
      to back down from doing so.


      President
      Bush used an executive order on his first day in office to reinstitute
      a pro-life policy that prevents forcing taxpayers to fund international
      groups that perform or promote abortions in other countries.


      While
      U.S. law prohibits funding abortions directly, Bush's Mexico City
      Policy expands the law by also prohibiting the funding of pro-abortion
      groups that either do abortions overseas or lobby pro-life governments
      to sacrifice their abortion limits.


      During
      the presidential election, pro-life groups issued a clarion call to
      voters telling them their tax money would be used if Obama were elected
      and saying he would likely reverse the Mexico City Policy immediately
      after taking office.


      The
      capital publication Congressional Quarterly reports that top Washington
      officials tell it that the incoming president will reverse the pro-life
      measure on his first day as president, on Wednesday.


      When
      Obama overturns the limits on global abortions, he will do so over
      the objections of dozens of members of Congress.


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Thursday, January 22, 2009

My little victory- 16 years ago today!

After giving birth via surprise emergency C-section to my first son, I had total and complete lack of faith in my ability to give birth naturally. I didn't even know if I would ever have another baby again because the first time had been so painful, scary, and humiliating. If that is what birth had to be, I didn't think that I could do it again.

But by 1993 I had done my homework on the subject of childbirth and VBAC. I joined ICAN, spent hours reading and re-reading informational and empowering books, attended an out-of-hospital childbirth class, hired a doula and went to a certified nurse midwife. On January 22, 1993, I had a VBAC and delivered my second son Sam!

And what a meaningful day for Sam to choose to make his entrance into the world! on the 20 the anniversary of the disastrous Supreme Court Decision, Roe vs. Wade. Other than giving birth on a day that celebrates death I haven't thought of any more ties to the day. I suppose there are some women who have been so traumatized by hospital births that they have opted for abortion instead. I don't have stats for that, but it wouldn't surprise me to read there is a correlation. I was terrified before my VBAC, and I think may have even suffered a bit from post traumatic stress. Maybe the significance of being born on January 22 will be found by Sam himself in whatever he decides to do with his life.

Nonetheless, in my mother's heart, Sam's birth was a small pro-life victory for us, and a personal victory for me!

Happy Birthday Sam!
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